IT'S B's BIRTHDAY~ VIRGO'S RUN THE WORLD

HAPPY 30TH BIRTHDAY BEYONCE
VIRGO'S RUN THE WORLD

September 4, 2011 It's B's Birthday... We like to wish Beyonce a very Happy Birthday. Many look at turning 30 as an important time in ones life. I disagree. You are just getting started and coming into your own. For Beyonce she has most definitely reach a highpoint in her life, but I'm pretty sure this is just the beginning. Think about it... I see this year as a moment in time she'll never forget. The triple threat DIVA turning "Thirty". Good things come in 3's. She recently announced she & husband Jay Z are expecting their first child and she's turning Thirty. Hmmmm.... What will the third good thing B? Leave it to Beyonce it could be anything. Just maybe they'll be another little surprise in store.


I admire Beyonce, because she's living her life out loud. No matter what you think about her, The triple threat diva is laying her mark on the world. The good fortune is only beginning and no one deserves it more. Embracing Love, Passion, & Play. And boy did it show as she walked the VMA's red carpet recently announcing to the world; "We're Expecting". Then to top it off and put on an amazing performance singing "Baby It's You".  Her performance AMAZE me so much I had to tweet it to my followers as if I was there live myself: Beyonce a Class Act... FABULOUS performance on #VMA Baby It's You Means More Now than Ever. Congratulations!!!  


Who's says you can't have it all? Let's hear the Anthem song of the day. Who Runs the World? VIRGO's Run the World. We'll if not the world we Run September. (smile)

Until next time live FABULOUS...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY LOVE LETTER ...FOOD FOR THE SOUL

HAPPY BIRTHDAY LOVE LETTER TO KIMBERLY
REFLECTING ON THE YEAR
"FOOD FOR THE SOUL"

Dear Kimberly (Me),

Another year has come & gone, so much to reflect on. Where should I start... A year of dreams, promises, challenges and disappointments. The best part of it all. I'm Still Standing. Standing tall filled with inspiration and ready for what I know will be my best year yet. WHY? I discovered loving me on a level that is undeniably the greatest pleasure of knowing thyself. Highly flavored with flaws & all. This Dear Kimberly letter is a Love Letter to Me on the most precious month of all. My Birthday month. Every year I write a letter to myself reflecting on the past year. (View last year's letter) Birthday's are a celebration of you. The best present you can give yourself is PUSH each year to be a better you. Reflect, Refine and Research your trails, tribulations and transform them into positive assessments.

My Glamourscope via Glamour Magazine says: It's Going To Be A Big Love Month. Which makes my Birthday Letter title just Perfect! The full moon in Pisces on the 12th and the new moon in Libra on the 27th will cast a dreamy glow over all of us-a cue to let your inner Aphrodite call the shots. Wear a pretty dress, write a love letter to your man, chat up the ridiculously hot IT guy or just indulge in a romantic-comedy marathon. Then decide with whom you want to reenact it, and make it happen on either of those days-or both!

Whew... What a month I have in store. The love letter is covered with minor revisions; to Me and well play everything else by ear. Lot's to look forward to. The Glamourscope is all in fun. Learning not to take yourself so seriously while handling business when need be and the pleasure when time permits. Regardless of your age its never too late to improve you. Taking the proper steps to reflect and discover your calling. Just what I do every year at this time. Me stepping out on faith, hope & grace has kept me having a positive attitude, even when things aren't a bouquet of roses. I'm constantly working on Me. If God can continue to love me unconditional. Then I surly should do the same with no whining & no regrets.

My title for this post is “LOVE Letter to ME”. Taking care of numero uno is essential in life. Learning to live a lifestyle that is pleasing to God, while meditating continuously on Mind~Body and Soul is key for me. One of Virgo's traits is wanting to keep the peace and making sure everyone is happy. It took me a few years to learn that its a balancing act with your happiness & others happiness. Keeping the peace isn't always an option. God wants us to love our neighbors and treat each other with respect. Forget about that old saying respect is earned. That quote definitely isn't in the bible. And getting & receiving respect doesn't always happen which brings me to my Aha point. You must learn to love from a distance. What is good for you, may not be good for me. You can love it, but I don't need to like it. I have a higher calling to answer to and that is my ultimate focus. Below I'm going to share a few LOVE HONORS that I vowel to myself  for my Birthday and honoring into the 2012 year.

LOVE HONOR: A vowel, commitment, promise that one makes to themselves in order to live their best life in the eyes of all that is GOD's Greatness.

COUNTDOWN...OK this year I'm honoring LOVE and for the next 22 days up until my Birthday September 22nd I'll share I Honor Love By... To see my daily “LOVE HONOR” Like our Facebook Page or Follow Us on Twitter. That's where my LOVE messages honoring Me, will be shared. Loving you isn't a selfish act. Its loving you enough to honor all the greatness God has in store for your life, while you're here on earth. God has a remarkable purpose for your life, So what you have to do is follow him, believing that he'll keep directing you. Without battles, there is no blessings! And, there's no better time then now to honor yourself and live your best life.

Over the next 22 days you'll see insight into my aspirations, goals and dreams going forward. In addition you'll feel my words and life lessons I learned over this year. Although I'm all about the details I'm not perfect and have made some great successes, but also came across a few disappointments. The disappointments are stepping stones for me not to repeat but delete from my life. I review my year much like an entertainment system. There are three buttons I refer to Play (Following God's Footsteps) Rewind (Time to Assess) Pause (Delete) This means in business and personal life. If you want greatness in life you need to have the right players. In any sport when the players aren't working they get traded to another team. If their lucky. Its important to take time before the New Year to assess the same for your life. My time is before my Birthday. I do this because I know my worth and next to God loving me. I must look in the mirror everyday and there is no other option but to “LOVE ME”.

 September 1st

"LOVE HONOR"

1. I Honor Love By... Putting my love of GOD above all other loves.

Last week this song was sent to me with a note and honestly the timing couldn't have been better.  I knew back in July what the title of this Birthday letter would be. It never ceases to amaze me that when I'm working on a project the universe will send hints along the way. When you're in tune with self & lean on your spiritual connection, listen closely for an approval or dis-approval. The lyrics of this song is beyond inspirational and the essence of a love letter .

I highly recommend to honor you and write your own love letter to self. Extremely therapeutic. Should you like to share your letter with us, please send to ASK KIMBERLY. I must warn you though I will honor your words and hold you accountable for "ACTIONS".

With each year should come "WISDOM". If you're not growing, then you're not "SOWING" the right "SEEDS".

I Corinthians 13:11-14: When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror, then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully know. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
 
Until next time live FABULOUS...

DEAR KIMBERLY...THE YEAR OF FINDING MYSELF "29"

In a recent blog post titled GLAM'ONDAY ALERT~BIRTHDAY LETTER COUNTDOWN. I expressed details on something that I do every year. And since starting the details...the drezrehersal...the I Do's... where we share all thing events, weddings, relationships and lifestyle planning. What's near & dear to my heart is sharing my life experiences in personal & business with others. It's one of several "Golden Nuggets" I vowed to share once I reached a certain milestone in life.  I truly believe in providing knowledge to others who may be trying to reach a simpler lifestyle. GOD wants us to share our gifts with others and that will be my Birthday gift to you on September 1st. Before closing my last week's post I mentioned this statement.

I would love to motivate, mentor and most importantly be mindful of your dreams. If you like ideas on how you can get started, please send ASK KIMBERLY an email, Tweet Us or post your comments here.



We'll I received many emails & tweets and I like to share a Dear Kimberly letter from Miss. Shivawn A. Mitchell. Shivawn recently self publish her first book "Rewrite Your Story", which I introduced here on our Blog. However, since then the cover design has change & its FABULOUS. You'll be able to get more details on purchasing copies of the book below. I wanted Shivawn to share her personal story,  just to show my followers & readers that regardless of where you are in life. There is always room to "BETTER YOU".  I commend Shivawn and will be holding her accountable for her future goals & dreams that she has shared. As I always say writing your dreams & desires down makes you accountable.  Just make sure you take the time to thoroughly think about your dreams and goals, and make sure they cover the essential areas of life.  All while being mindful of these four words: Wisdom, Honesty, Patience and Love will push you to your destiny even more. So let's get it started...


Dear Kimberly,

Twenty Nine brought success, let downs, tears, excitement, inconsistency and eventually at the Aha Epiphany moment. At 29 Lady you were the poster child and spokesperson for the “Jack of all Trades and a Master of None”. You went from starting a online magazine to a women’s network and then your own book. But, the book stuck! Instead of pleasing yourself you were caught up in pleasing others in business ventures & in your personal life and that has never been you! You’ve lost friends, gained new ones.  Now you finally understand that it’s better to have a few good ones then a lot of posers. You've questioned where your “Guy” was and when the heck you would  leave that 9 to 5?

Through all the tears and laughs your book made you realize that failures and blunt truthfulness about life and being a LADY was your platform and true purpose in life! Thankful for the sunshine in recognizing your purpose. Later 29 it’s been some lessons.
30 is all about defining you and leaving your mark and giving it my best shot! I thought turning 30 would be a big pity party but instead it has turned into a BIG dream, bigger party and I LOVE it! I want so much in life, but instead of just hoping and not having a plan I have a master plan!

Heading to Dreamland

Shivawn Goals & Desires for "30"

• Laugh more. That hard tears rolling down your face can’t take it anymore laughing.
• Be a better friend, sister, daughter but with limits. I can’t fix people this year! I can encourage, pray for. And then your're on your own
• Release my final copy of my book in 2012
• Take a JUST ME vacation.
• Date
• Pour into myself! Read more, attend conferences and connect with people that can sharpen my skills
• Be in position to leave my 9 to 5
• Build my brand L.o.v.e.
• Be a great business partner
• Try new things. Just have fun!
• Meditate and have a better relationship with God

Unlike last year I have a plan on how I’m going to achieve these goals. I won’t go another day complaining about my situation but instead I will see what life is trying to teach me and learn from it. I want to inspire people,  so that means I need to give of my talents a little more. And I will operate by my new found personal mantra: I will no longer apologize for embracing & becoming who I am. I have survived much to qualify for this season in my life. I will not beg anyone to be a part of my life or business plans. I will inspire and shine light to help others. I am fabulous just the way I am. I AM a change agent!

Shivawn A. Mitchell
"Don't Just Have a Vision But Live it Loud"

To follow Shivawn on her journey Tweet her or check out her Website and you'll  be able reserve a copy of her book "Rewrite Your Story"~To be release in 2012. You may also leave comments directly here on our Blog, Follow Us on Twitter or send us your story at: ASK KIMBERLY.

Until next time live FABULOUS...

GLAM ALERT...BEHIND THE SCENES with FASHION & STYLE EXPERT LILLIANA VAZQUEZ

Lilliana Vazquez—Fashion & Style Expert and the
Founder/Editor-In-Chief of
The CheapChica's Guide to Style

Style expert Lilliana Vazquez dishes on her recent video shoot with Style&co. and the head-to-toe jean makeovers she gave to four gorgeous GLAMOUR readers. Check out the full video and get insider denim tips from Lilliana.




Every fashionista needs at least 3 pairs of fabulous fitting jeans in her wardrobe. No matter what shape or size you are Style&co. has the perfect fit for your perfect body. That's right I said it you're PERFECT body.

• Curvy Fit~Barley Boot Cut
• Slim & Sleek

• Tummy Control~Boot Cut (especially made for petites)
• Bottoms Up~Slim Leg

Casual, Chic or Sassy.  Style&co. not only has the mood, but your size.  Style&co. Jeans are available in misses, plus and petite.

drezrehersal Tip... Ladies we are all unique and its time to embrace every inch of your body. Love you regardless of shape or size. Most importantly connect with your Mind~Body~Soul and then you'll exude an inner GLOW far beyond shape or size.

Style&co. Jeans Collection

Get your Style&co. Jeans only at Macy's.

Until next time live FABULOUS...

GLAM'ONDAY ALERT~BIRTHDAY LETTER COUNTDOWN...



31 DAY(S) COUNTDOWN UNTIL BIRTHDAY!
BIRTHDAY LETTER STARTS
SEPTEMBER 1ST...

Today we're taking a different direction to our GLAM'ONDAY ALERT... Each week we bring you all things Events, Fashion, Beauty and on occasion Food for the Soul Tips & Suggestions. Today is special as it starts my thirty one day countdown to what I call each year; A moment in time to not only celebrate me, but also reflect on the year. If you haven't guess yet... The correct answer will be my "BIRTHDAY".


LET'S GET IT STARTED...


Every year I write a letter to myself which reflects on ; Where I've Been; Where I'm Going and How I Can Be a Better Me. Last year "2010" my letter consisted of many transformations.

• 2010 Birthday Letter In Search of A "Better Me".
• Each day up until my Birthday~September 22nd I shared on my Facebook Page Reasons to a "Better Me".
• In Closing Wrap-Up, Final Thoughts & Happy Birthday To Me.

This year I have a special title, which I'll share on September 1st. Hopefully my thoughts and learning experiences this past year can help at least one individual make changes for where they are and P.U.S.H (Push~Until~Something~Happens) to follow a dream, a goal or a promise you have made to yourself. There's no better time than the present to get started. I've come FULL CIRCLE once again and I'm humbly thankful for the simple pleasure's of life. The bigger picture in life is nice, but I'm just ecstatically grateful for "BREATH" each day. Thank you heavenly father for giving me that and as long as I follow your principles there will be greater pleasures in store for me.

Placing your desires down in writing holds you accountable for your life. What you don't accomplished or even try. You have no one to blame but yourself. If you take anything from this post today know GOD has a better plan for your life. He expects nothing but goodness & greatness from you. Expect the same for yourself and come with me on this journal to share my Birthday Countdown. I would love to motivate, mentor and most importantly be mindful of your dreams. If you like ideas on how you can get started, please send ASK KIMBERLY an email, Tweet Us or post your comments here.

So Let's Get It Started!

This song is one of my anthem go to songs. If it doesn't get you motivated I don't know what will. (SMILE)

Until next time live FABULOUS...

DARE TO PLAY SMOKY EYES with SEPHORA...

Dare To Play with SEPHORA...
We had a blast with Glamour Magazine and the professional team at SEPHORA Sherman Oaks.

If you follow my Blog you know I write about SEPHORA often. WHY YOU ASK?

SEPHORA is the one stop shop for all things beauty.
I'm like a kid in a candy store when I visit them. I go in for usually a specific item, however always come out with a big bag of glam goodies. Being a VIP Beauty Insider also helps. Below are some wonderful tips on getting that smoky eye and a few behind the scenes shots. " Enjoy". 

Always GLAM Ready~ Take 1

Take 2

Take 3

5 FABULOUS Tips to get the perfect Smoky Eyes...

STEP 1: PREP
Pat SEPHORA Collection Age Defy Eye Cream along browbones and under-eye areas.

STEP 2: PRIME
Tap SEPHORA Collection Perfecting Eye Primer onto lids, from lash lines to browbones, and under the lower lash lines-to keep shadow from fading.

STEP 3: LINE
Using short, controlled strokes, line the top and bottom lash lines with a deep-colored creamy eye pencil. Blend liner with the SEPHORA Collection Professional Natural Smudge Brush #11 using a quick back-and-forth motion.



 STEP 4: SHADOW
With the SEPHORA Collection Professional Platinum Natural Medium Eyeshadow Brush #14, apply shadow to the lash lines, directly on top of the liner. Use the brush to diffuse the shadow up into the creases. Color should be darkest at the lash lines and gradate up into the creases.

STEP 5: FINISH
Curl lashes with the SEPHORA Collection Eyelash Curler, and finish with two to three coats of SEPHORA Collection Full Action Mascara.




Helen Phillips SEPHORA Pro
Demonstrating STEP 1~3~4



Helen Phillips SEPHORA Pro
Applying STEP 4 Shadow to
Miss. Glissy

 
Helen Phillips SEPHORA Pro
Demonstrating  Intense Liner

drezrehersal Tip...Getting the smoking eye doesn't need to be with bold rich color's. You can get a very subtle look with natural color's : ie: I adore the Sunbaked No . 2 The trio shadows consist of bronzy brown, shimmer gold and moonshawdow gold. Line the inner eye with a 03 Keep Brown Waterproof Linen and blend the shadow with the attached liner professional platinum natural smudge brush.

Until next time live FABULOUS...

DARE TO PLAY...

What's You're Best Kept Beauty Secret _____________________________?

My best kept Beauty Secret is shopping at SEPHORA. My one-stop-shop to find all things GLAM & FABULOUS...

Join me Saturday, August 13th along with GLAMOUR Magazine to discover the best kept beauty secret and uncover the latest beauty trends, innovations along with having a SEPHORA expert transform your visage into a vision of  "GLAM PERFECTION".

DISCOVER...

Smokey Eyes

High impact Lips

Intense Liner

Multicolored Lids

And my Favorite...Seamless Skin

So come on out and experiment, express & explore an explosion of "Beauty" that is undeniable. Here's another secret... I'll be looking for a classic beauty to be the featured leading lady in an upcoming music video. Interested in attending, please share your "Best Kept Beauty Secret" on our Facebook Page or Tweet Us

by Friday, August 12th 12:00 pm.

Until next time live FABULOUS...

EXCLUSIVE VLOG~REAL GIRLS DO COOK W/ CELEBRITY CHEF AMEERA...

Real Girls DO Cook ~Exclusive weekly VLOG on

the details...the drezrehersal...the I Do's...

with Celebrity Chef Ameera.

This week was extremely hectic for me as I had several oranges in the air (so to speak) juggling all at the same time. But its the renaissance woman in me to handle it all & do it well. Half stepping isn't an option. I had house guests visiting which required the foodie in me to put it down as well as attending a 3 day extravaganza High School Reunion and of course maintain the business. Yes, organization is key to juggling it "ALL".

Each week my girl Chef Ameera will share easy recipes that are not only delicious, but quite easy to test out in your own kitchen.  Cooking is sensual to the "SOUL" and we'll show you how to turn it up a notch and share a little of your heart whether its for your

significant other, the girls or family.  

Now let's get it started with Rustic Italian Bean Salad with Apple Cider Vinaigrette. The perfect recipe for those summer gatherings, bridal brunch or a lite meal after a long day at work. Real Girls NEED Real Recipes and this is one of my favorites.

drezrehersal Event Planning & Lifestyle Co.

Exclusive weekly VLOG with Chef Ameera

3 FABULOUS REAL GIRL RECIPES

Rustic Italian Bean Salad with Apple Cider Vinaigrette

Watermelon Salad w/Strawberries, Feta, Basil and a Balsamic Reduction

Refreshing Summer Beverage: Watermelon and Cucumber Virgin

We love to hear from you, so please come back and share your comments with us after trying out these 3 FABULOUS recipes. Cheers...

Until next time live FABULOUS...

PART II ECO-FRIENDLY DETAILS FOR YOUR WEDDING DAY

Saying "YES" to Eco-Friendly Dresses & Accessories


drezrehersal Tip…If you’re a Bride who takes great pride in caring for the environment then when planning your wedding you just might consider purchasing an Eco-Friendly Gown. Not just any gown, however your very own custom couture gown. I know you're probably thinking "Couture" usually comes with a high price tag. That's not always the case and I'll provide you a cost effective option to have your dream gown without paying the platinum price. Purchasing the bridal gown is a big step that takes careful thought, time & consideration. Of course most brides want their wedding gown to be like no other. Designing your own is often the way to go and pricing is comparable to purchasing one already made. So if you had the choice to spend the same but guaranteed it's a one of kind. What would you choose?

And the bonus is you're reaping the benefits of doing your part by saving the environment. "KUDOS".

Eco Chic Oh Yes...Reduce & Reuse. The key to an Eco-Friendly wedding that still exemplifies style. Focus on the 2 C’s — Conscious & Conserve. Using accents or materials doesn’t just save money, it saves resources. What Does Eco-Friendly Really Mean? Environmentally Friendly (also eco-friendly, nature friendly and green) are synonyms used to refer to goods and services considered to inflict minimal or no harm on the environment. To make consumers aware, environmentally friendly goods and services often are marked with Eco-labels

SAY YES TO ECO-FRIENDLY
DRESSES & ACCESSORIES

Eco-Chic Couture by Gwendolyn Gleason. Gwendolyn creates custom made one of a kind gowns, dresses and accessories for the earth conscious Bride! Not exclusively Eco-Chic but, ALWAYS in natural fabrics & no polyester! Gwendolyn setting a new trend for brides-to-be and making them chic fabulous not only in their wedding gown, but accessorizing simply gorgeous feathered hair veils, feather fantasy birdcage veils and tying it off with organic sculptured belts using remnants from the Eco-Chic Couture production. Definitely for the bride who isn't shy about being different. Eco-Chic gown, dresses and accessories are made from organic textiles & peace silk textile finishing. Mastering inspiration from the portraits and the turn of the century. Anyone who is a designer knows this is where it starts.

The beautiful Calla Lily mermaid gown shown in the photo below is made with layers of organic silk on the bias. This couture gown is a popular dress and was inspired by a Vera Wang design. Gwendolyn designed the Calla Lily eco-friendly gown with cotton mesh interlining and "ALL SILK LINING". Now as an event producer next to the invitations setting the tone for your special day. It wouldn't be a memorable moment without having that one of a kind gown. So, I have a special treat for all you Brides-to-Be. Have your Dream Gown without Paying the Platinum Price.

For The Bride Who Wants to Make a
"STATEMENT"

It's all in the details with this Black Feather Fantasy Birdcage Veil
by Gwendolyn Gleason

Black & White Organic Sculptured Belt with some Bling is
"SUPER CHIC"

Eco Chic Couture will offer a memorable moment discount of 20% Off your custom wedding gown or dress and 10% Off all Bridal Accessories. Use the Memorable Moment Code
(SO. CAL BRIDE). Discount is valid until Sunday, August 7, 2011.

Two Frequently Asked Questions:


1. What is the Average Cost for an Eco Chic Couture Gown: The price range for a short dress starts at: $1900 and for long gowns starts at $2800.

2. What is the turnaround time for an Eco Chic Couture Gown: Turnaround time is between 4-6 months and for RUSH orders are an extra charge and take between 2-4 months.

If you like to learn more about designing your very own Eco Chic Couture Gown, please contact Gwendolyn Gleason at: 413.374.1787 and she will be more than happy to assist you. Don't forget though you can save an additional 10% for accessories and 20% off your wedding gown or dress, just as long as you call before August 7, 2011.

To Say I Do to an Eco-Friendly Wedding view my PART 1 post at WEDDZILLA  for  6 drezrehersal Tips... to get you started.

Bonus Tip: Everyone has their own take on exactly what Eco-Friendly is. There's only one way: The Right Way! We have personally been trained on the process and what counts as eco-friendly & green as well as have worked closely with the Green Council.
i.e. Just because flowers & fruits grow from the ground doesn't make it organic or natural. Many suppliers use un-natural solvents.  We have also produced one of the largest green events for the commercial real estate industry. In addition acknowledging those commercial high-rise buildings who are doing their part conserving energy and being green efficient. SCE Energy Efficiency Awards we're giving honoring their commitment to the environment.  Being Eco-Friendly works for weddings, events and lifestyle planning.
  
Until next time live FABULOUS...

PREVIEW BOOK PARTY~REWRITE YOUR STORY by SHIVAWN A. MITCHELL

Three things I'm all for is empowering, supporting, up-lifting others. One question I often get ask when being interviewed: What is Your Golden Nugget of Advice? Just one of my answers: On your journey to success remember to be a blessing to someone else that may be striving for where you are now. When ask by Shivawn Mitchell entrepreneur of the Love Movement Network if I would take part in her Preview Book Party "Rewriting Your Story". My immediate answer was I would be honored. Just a little background on how I have had the pleasure to know Shivawn. Shivawn & I initially meet through a networking group that wasn't the Love Movement Network, which anyone who knows me knows I'm extremely comfortable being the sociable butterfly. That immediate connection than spilled over to twitter, which then lead her to interview me for her Radio Show. We have since than built a bond that far exceeds social networking. So, if you want the truth that may not always be served on a pretty platter I'm the girl to come to. I Say What I Mean & Mean What I Say, but the deliver is often with "LOVE".

REWRITE YOUR STORY
by Shivawn A. Mitchell

Soon after me saying yes, I received Shivawn first chapter titled, Loving Him More Than Me. The title alone definitely got my attention and I said to myself this is going to be deep. I made sure not to have any interruptions so I could give all my attention to the 12 pages that she in-trusted me with. It's like turning over your precious baby to someone and saying don't drop them. "Big Pressure". I won't give you the full details of the chapter, but it hit a core with me. OK , I enjoying teasing just a bit so I'll share a paragraph of the chapter with you.

Rewrite Your Story by Shivawn A. Mitchell

A portion of Chapter 1: Loving Him More Than Me

I remember coming back home from work one day, thinking about how I was tired of chasing men and dating ones who had commitment issues. I pretty much was in a serious dating slump by choice. So, I decided, out loud, that with the next guy I dated, I was going to take it slow, no rushing into a relationship just because my marriage plan hadn't worked out.

The plan was that I would meet my husband in college, we would graduate, get married, have children, live in a nice house and attend church every Sunday. My plans so didn't work out that way.

This particular paragraph was a red flag for me. However, life is like being in school 24-7~365 days. You're learning something everyday, then tested. You either "APPLY" the lesson or "FAIL" in the process, but "NEVER" Give-Up. After reading the chapter and providing my feedback to Shivawn to then receive an email back from her making me aware referencing words of encouragement for a Blog post I had written awhile ago. The post made a huge impact on her, which in-turn she makes reference of in the book Rewrite Your Story. I had no idea of this when she initially came to me to be part of the preview book party. Which now I know the favorable blessing I'm currently working on is definitely GOD saying your steps are moving in the right direction.

Shivawn is headed in that right direction with her Love Movement Network who's mission is
living out visions eternally through a community of women and teens of all ethnicity's and various ages that are committed to increasing their awareness in personal growth, financial freedom, health-beauty wellness, and developing entrepreneurs. It is our mission to impact each others lives in a positive manner as well as our community and the next generation.


I'm confidant that her personal journey will assist other women in its never to late to Rewrite Your Story. After reading the first chapter I was on pins & needles wanting more. I'll be waiting for the mail man everyday until I received my autograph copy.

Now that the previewing party is over let's get started with the pre-order party via @ www.shivawnamitchell.com  Rewrite Your Story pre-orders will be available until August 31st. To view my preview party comments on Rewrite Your Story~Loving Him More Than Me

Until next time live FABULOUS...

REAL GIRLS DO COOK with CELEBRITY CHEF AMEERA...

Beyonce new anthem song Girls Rule the World is a powerful statement for those ladies who are holding it down and doing it all. We'll I like to share one of those women with you. Meet Celebrity Chef Ameera who rules the Kitchen.


Exclusive VLOG with Celebrity Chef Ameera
Coming Next Week... Right here at
the details...the drezrehersal...the I Do's...



L.A. Girls DO Cook ~Ameera a Celebrity Chef born and raised in Los Angeles lets the world know...We LA girls don't just order...we COOK.

From film sets to red carpet parties to celebrity homes, Chef Ameera has become the culinary stylist and artist of choice for a wide clientele, including celebrities Keri Hilson, Stevie Wonder, Rick Fox, Eliza Dushku, Lil’ Wayne, T.I., and Paul Allen. Her expertise has been featured on Los Angeles’ Radio Free 102.3 KJLH and MTV’s “Daddy’s Girls,” starring Vanessa and Angela Simmons.


Chef Ameera is one of the city’s most highly-regarded food stylists, gourmet culinary artists and the mother of two. Not only ruling the world, but the kitchen bringing her love and warm heart in to the preparation , creation of meals which, to Chef Ameera, fulfill the nourishment of one’s body.

Chef Ameera a personal friend of mine will share every week here on the details...the drezrehersal..the I Do's... a one-on-one hands on VLOG look into L.A. Girls DO Cook. Anyone who knows me well, knows I love entertaining and there's nothing better than sharing details on expressing just how much you care through cooking. WHY? Because everything taste better with LOVE. Chef Ameera wont just provide you tips she show you how to own your cooking skills and rule your kitchen. Below is a peek into Chef Ameera putting it down at this year's BET (Black Entertainment Television) Music Awards.



"OFF WITH HER HEAD"
FRIED CHICKEN STICKS



Whimsical Cake Pops

Whimsical Treats
Cake Pops & Chocolate Covered Marshmallows

Some of the other items on the themed menu were:  TweedleDee & TweedleDum's Buttermilk-Parmesan Smashed Potatoes, The White Queen's Five-Cheese Truffle Lobster Macaroni, The White Rabbits Braised Greens and Sweet Treats that consisted of Mad Hatter's Peach Crumble, Whimsical Cake Pops & Chocolate Covered Marshmallows and lastly to wet your whistle: Cheshire Cat's Tea Brew and Caterpillar's Strawberry Elixir. Now I know you're ready to get started and we're ready to help you spread a little LOVE in your kitchen. See you back here next week.

Until next time live FABULOUS...

LIFE LESSON IN TRUST...

Going about your day requires patience & grace. Patience that you won't encounter some knucklehead to ruffle your feathers. Grace that you know how to handle without re-acting if it should happen. Part of my daily prayer always includes asking God to continue guiding me in the right direction that is his will for me along with patience, grace and hope. I started to really think about that those words that have consistently been the recipe for my day-to-day. Now, I know the world isn't always peaches and cream. Although that would be super sweet if it was. So when the peach goes bad & the cream goes sour. Who Do You Turn To?


Your first instinct may be to call a good friend. Take a deep breath so you're thinking clearly and not re-acting to the situation at hand. You should be careful who you share your thoughts with especially when everything is a big blur. Taking a timeout to re-gain your thoughts will provide you some solitude in what to do next. Having a confidant you can turn to is great. Having someone who has your best interest at all times is priceless. I had a moment in time yesterday that I needed to take my own advice. Instead of leaping out to a friend I knew there was a better way to handle what I was feeling & the relief I needed. Something I tell myself daily is: Let No One Steal Your Joy.  But, we're human & although I try to live a stress free life thinking happy thoughts throughout the day. The mood does shift from time to time. Where Should I Turn? PRAYER... In my moment of praying for answers with the situation I was dealing with. I had an Aha Moment of "TRUST". Trusting in God, that the exact issue I was upset about was something I had been praying on consistently for the past month. Not recognizing it at the time, this is exactly what I ask God for. And finally he answered my prayer just on his timeline. Placing trust in God that he will provide you the answers when the time is right. The word trust came over me seven times over. Re-evaluating what had taken place by just breathing, centering myself to think logically. To then realize I hadn't applied the three words I always include in my prayers everyday and yes the first thing I wanted to do was call a girlfriend  just to vent. Life comes with challenges and what may be monumental to us is a piece of cake to God. Trust in him to navigate you through the bad traffic of life.

To my surprise when I called one friend she didn't answer. I started to call another, but was interrupted by a incoming call. The funny thing is I know God intervene at both times guiding me to seek him. My Aha Moment of this story is TRUST. Placing your trust in God & not man. Friends, Family, Associates & Relationships will disappoint you. God will never disappoint you, lead you down the wrong path or give you bad advice. In no way Am I saying friends give you bad advice, but at times you're seeking a conflict of interest advice. Trusting takes 100% commitment and no one has your back more than GOD. You may be in the middle of a life challenge now or face one in the future. How the recipe turns out depends on if you use the right ingredients. The recipe is TRUSTING in God. To do this calls for Guidance, Grace, Patience and Obedience in seeking God's will. Trust God and not Man to guide you through the perfect recipe. We all have minor hiccups in life its part of growing and becoming a better you. I'm back on my square and ready to get in the game called life. There's a reason for In God We Trust being placed on our currency. If you know the reason why, please share by commenting below or should you had an Aha Moment we love to hear your story.

drezrehersal Tip... Life Lesson I learned today is that it takes year's to gain trust and just a single moment to destroy it. Place your trust in God's hands for he will never forsake you or betray you by sharing what you bring to him in "TRUST".

Never Would Have Made It

Food for the Soul...
Psalm 12:6: The Lord's promise are pure, like silver refined in a furnace purified seven time over.


Psalm 13:5-6: But I trust in your unfailing love. I will rejoice because you have rescued me. I will sing to the Lord because he is good to me.

Psalm 37:4: Take delight in the Lord , and he will give you your hearts desires.

GLAM'ONDAY ALERT...HOORAY FOR SUMMER




Time to Exhale and Let Go...Its SUMMERTIME!


HOORAY FOR SUMMER... Are you excited as I am about Summer? We're only into week one; although the weather hasn't been cooperating that shouldn't stop us from preparing for what we know will be a great summer season. Placing positive energy into the universe is definitely a start to what you desire for yourself. Place it into existence and it shall be. The next few months for me will consist of weddings, events, business functions, networking, continuing day-to-day business operations. And through it all I still must put time aside for me. Regardless of what is going on, always make time for self. You only have one life and as I always say you can't continue to be everything to everybody while not taking care of you first.

Summer should be a time of exhaling. Letting go of all the responsibilities months prior. As a child growing-up didn't you look forward to summertime? Why stop now as an adult? Close your eyes and let's experience the goodness of summer... Take a deep breath while I'll take you on a brief vacation to experience the goodness of summertime. Smell the fresh air, have a nice cold glass of lemonade, put your feet-up reading a good book, sitting out by the pool, placing your feet in the cool ocean, running along the beach with the wind  flowing through your hair, having a picnic at the park with someone special, or just taking a scenic drive. It's just that simple... "ENJOY LIFE".  ENJOY your surroundings, ENJOY the simple things, ENJOY family, ENJOY friends, ENJOY breathing tranquility, ENJOY time alone. If you're not enjoying life than there's no time like the present to make a change.

First Step: Make a list of what you desire to change and post it in a place you can see it clearly each & everyday. Second Step: Take Action...Viewing the list everyday makes you accountable for what you place in the universe. Third Step: Go for it... As you put changes into action, make sure to have positive people in your world along the way. Making a change just may be to eliminate those who really don't have your best interest at heart. I call them pity party monsters.

drezrehersal Tip... If you feel you're loosing yourself in day-to-day responsibilities. Just remember to live for today. For tomorrow will take care of itself. Keep this one word in mind when things get bumpy "ENJOY". Life will be more blissful if you keep this in mind. No one can create your happiness, but you. Live in the moment and just enjoy what god desires you to have. A life of abundance. Don't get discourage if you don't see immediate changes. Having faith is essential. Faith is confidence in that we  hope for and assurance about what we do not see. ~Hebrews 11.1 NIV

To recommendations to "ENJOY" this Summer.


Eat the Cookie...Buy the Shoes: Giving Yourself Permission to Lighten Up

Above & Beyond:The Limitless Power of Faith~Joel Osteen


Until next time live FABULOUS...