Food for the Soul...Unconditional Love

Unconditional Love

No conditions, only commandments

Two words I receive questions on all the time. "Unconditional Love". Exactly what is the meaning of "Unconditional Love". Although, there are many answers I'll share one that is close & dear to my heart. In order to fully give of yourself to another, you must first trust the process that you are capable to embrace all that love has to offer. Stage One: the details...

My love for you is unconditional. I'll go the the ends of the earth just for you. You say stop, drop and roll, I'm down no questions asked.  I'll continue to follow your footsteps, trust in your word, believe thy will be done and have complete faith in the process. Why? Because you'll do the same for me.  That's the kind of love you're deserving of.

Soulful Reminder:  "I have revealed you to them, and I will continue to do so. Then your love for me will be in them, and I will be in them." John 17:26 Holy Bible NLT (2007)

Until next time live FABULOUS...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY LOVE LETTER ...FOOD FOR THE SOUL

HAPPY BIRTHDAY LOVE LETTER TO KIMBERLY
REFLECTING ON THE YEAR
"FOOD FOR THE SOUL"

Dear Kimberly (Me),

Another year has come & gone, so much to reflect on. Where should I start... A year of dreams, promises, challenges and disappointments. The best part of it all. I'm Still Standing. Standing tall filled with inspiration and ready for what I know will be my best year yet. WHY? I discovered loving me on a level that is undeniably the greatest pleasure of knowing thyself. Highly flavored with flaws & all. This Dear Kimberly letter is a Love Letter to Me on the most precious month of all. My Birthday month. Every year I write a letter to myself reflecting on the past year. (View last year's letter) Birthday's are a celebration of you. The best present you can give yourself is PUSH each year to be a better you. Reflect, Refine and Research your trails, tribulations and transform them into positive assessments.

My Glamourscope via Glamour Magazine says: It's Going To Be A Big Love Month. Which makes my Birthday Letter title just Perfect! The full moon in Pisces on the 12th and the new moon in Libra on the 27th will cast a dreamy glow over all of us-a cue to let your inner Aphrodite call the shots. Wear a pretty dress, write a love letter to your man, chat up the ridiculously hot IT guy or just indulge in a romantic-comedy marathon. Then decide with whom you want to reenact it, and make it happen on either of those days-or both!

Whew... What a month I have in store. The love letter is covered with minor revisions; to Me and well play everything else by ear. Lot's to look forward to. The Glamourscope is all in fun. Learning not to take yourself so seriously while handling business when need be and the pleasure when time permits. Regardless of your age its never too late to improve you. Taking the proper steps to reflect and discover your calling. Just what I do every year at this time. Me stepping out on faith, hope & grace has kept me having a positive attitude, even when things aren't a bouquet of roses. I'm constantly working on Me. If God can continue to love me unconditional. Then I surly should do the same with no whining & no regrets.

My title for this post is “LOVE Letter to ME”. Taking care of numero uno is essential in life. Learning to live a lifestyle that is pleasing to God, while meditating continuously on Mind~Body and Soul is key for me. One of Virgo's traits is wanting to keep the peace and making sure everyone is happy. It took me a few years to learn that its a balancing act with your happiness & others happiness. Keeping the peace isn't always an option. God wants us to love our neighbors and treat each other with respect. Forget about that old saying respect is earned. That quote definitely isn't in the bible. And getting & receiving respect doesn't always happen which brings me to my Aha point. You must learn to love from a distance. What is good for you, may not be good for me. You can love it, but I don't need to like it. I have a higher calling to answer to and that is my ultimate focus. Below I'm going to share a few LOVE HONORS that I vowel to myself  for my Birthday and honoring into the 2012 year.

LOVE HONOR: A vowel, commitment, promise that one makes to themselves in order to live their best life in the eyes of all that is GOD's Greatness.

COUNTDOWN...OK this year I'm honoring LOVE and for the next 22 days up until my Birthday September 22nd I'll share I Honor Love By... To see my daily “LOVE HONOR” Like our Facebook Page or Follow Us on Twitter. That's where my LOVE messages honoring Me, will be shared. Loving you isn't a selfish act. Its loving you enough to honor all the greatness God has in store for your life, while you're here on earth. God has a remarkable purpose for your life, So what you have to do is follow him, believing that he'll keep directing you. Without battles, there is no blessings! And, there's no better time then now to honor yourself and live your best life.

Over the next 22 days you'll see insight into my aspirations, goals and dreams going forward. In addition you'll feel my words and life lessons I learned over this year. Although I'm all about the details I'm not perfect and have made some great successes, but also came across a few disappointments. The disappointments are stepping stones for me not to repeat but delete from my life. I review my year much like an entertainment system. There are three buttons I refer to Play (Following God's Footsteps) Rewind (Time to Assess) Pause (Delete) This means in business and personal life. If you want greatness in life you need to have the right players. In any sport when the players aren't working they get traded to another team. If their lucky. Its important to take time before the New Year to assess the same for your life. My time is before my Birthday. I do this because I know my worth and next to God loving me. I must look in the mirror everyday and there is no other option but to “LOVE ME”.

 September 1st

"LOVE HONOR"

1. I Honor Love By... Putting my love of GOD above all other loves.

Last week this song was sent to me with a note and honestly the timing couldn't have been better.  I knew back in July what the title of this Birthday letter would be. It never ceases to amaze me that when I'm working on a project the universe will send hints along the way. When you're in tune with self & lean on your spiritual connection, listen closely for an approval or dis-approval. The lyrics of this song is beyond inspirational and the essence of a love letter .

I highly recommend to honor you and write your own love letter to self. Extremely therapeutic. Should you like to share your letter with us, please send to ASK KIMBERLY. I must warn you though I will honor your words and hold you accountable for "ACTIONS".

With each year should come "WISDOM". If you're not growing, then you're not "SOWING" the right "SEEDS".

I Corinthians 13:11-14: When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror, then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully know. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
 
Until next time live FABULOUS...

DEAR KIMBERLY...THE YEAR OF FINDING MYSELF "29"

In a recent blog post titled GLAM'ONDAY ALERT~BIRTHDAY LETTER COUNTDOWN. I expressed details on something that I do every year. And since starting the details...the drezrehersal...the I Do's... where we share all thing events, weddings, relationships and lifestyle planning. What's near & dear to my heart is sharing my life experiences in personal & business with others. It's one of several "Golden Nuggets" I vowed to share once I reached a certain milestone in life.  I truly believe in providing knowledge to others who may be trying to reach a simpler lifestyle. GOD wants us to share our gifts with others and that will be my Birthday gift to you on September 1st. Before closing my last week's post I mentioned this statement.

I would love to motivate, mentor and most importantly be mindful of your dreams. If you like ideas on how you can get started, please send ASK KIMBERLY an email, Tweet Us or post your comments here.



We'll I received many emails & tweets and I like to share a Dear Kimberly letter from Miss. Shivawn A. Mitchell. Shivawn recently self publish her first book "Rewrite Your Story", which I introduced here on our Blog. However, since then the cover design has change & its FABULOUS. You'll be able to get more details on purchasing copies of the book below. I wanted Shivawn to share her personal story,  just to show my followers & readers that regardless of where you are in life. There is always room to "BETTER YOU".  I commend Shivawn and will be holding her accountable for her future goals & dreams that she has shared. As I always say writing your dreams & desires down makes you accountable.  Just make sure you take the time to thoroughly think about your dreams and goals, and make sure they cover the essential areas of life.  All while being mindful of these four words: Wisdom, Honesty, Patience and Love will push you to your destiny even more. So let's get it started...


Dear Kimberly,

Twenty Nine brought success, let downs, tears, excitement, inconsistency and eventually at the Aha Epiphany moment. At 29 Lady you were the poster child and spokesperson for the “Jack of all Trades and a Master of None”. You went from starting a online magazine to a women’s network and then your own book. But, the book stuck! Instead of pleasing yourself you were caught up in pleasing others in business ventures & in your personal life and that has never been you! You’ve lost friends, gained new ones.  Now you finally understand that it’s better to have a few good ones then a lot of posers. You've questioned where your “Guy” was and when the heck you would  leave that 9 to 5?

Through all the tears and laughs your book made you realize that failures and blunt truthfulness about life and being a LADY was your platform and true purpose in life! Thankful for the sunshine in recognizing your purpose. Later 29 it’s been some lessons.
30 is all about defining you and leaving your mark and giving it my best shot! I thought turning 30 would be a big pity party but instead it has turned into a BIG dream, bigger party and I LOVE it! I want so much in life, but instead of just hoping and not having a plan I have a master plan!

Heading to Dreamland

Shivawn Goals & Desires for "30"

• Laugh more. That hard tears rolling down your face can’t take it anymore laughing.
• Be a better friend, sister, daughter but with limits. I can’t fix people this year! I can encourage, pray for. And then your're on your own
• Release my final copy of my book in 2012
• Take a JUST ME vacation.
• Date
• Pour into myself! Read more, attend conferences and connect with people that can sharpen my skills
• Be in position to leave my 9 to 5
• Build my brand L.o.v.e.
• Be a great business partner
• Try new things. Just have fun!
• Meditate and have a better relationship with God

Unlike last year I have a plan on how I’m going to achieve these goals. I won’t go another day complaining about my situation but instead I will see what life is trying to teach me and learn from it. I want to inspire people,  so that means I need to give of my talents a little more. And I will operate by my new found personal mantra: I will no longer apologize for embracing & becoming who I am. I have survived much to qualify for this season in my life. I will not beg anyone to be a part of my life or business plans. I will inspire and shine light to help others. I am fabulous just the way I am. I AM a change agent!

Shivawn A. Mitchell
"Don't Just Have a Vision But Live it Loud"

To follow Shivawn on her journey Tweet her or check out her Website and you'll  be able reserve a copy of her book "Rewrite Your Story"~To be release in 2012. You may also leave comments directly here on our Blog, Follow Us on Twitter or send us your story at: ASK KIMBERLY.

Until next time live FABULOUS...

GLAM'ONDAY ALERT~BIRTHDAY LETTER COUNTDOWN...



31 DAY(S) COUNTDOWN UNTIL BIRTHDAY!
BIRTHDAY LETTER STARTS
SEPTEMBER 1ST...

Today we're taking a different direction to our GLAM'ONDAY ALERT... Each week we bring you all things Events, Fashion, Beauty and on occasion Food for the Soul Tips & Suggestions. Today is special as it starts my thirty one day countdown to what I call each year; A moment in time to not only celebrate me, but also reflect on the year. If you haven't guess yet... The correct answer will be my "BIRTHDAY".


LET'S GET IT STARTED...


Every year I write a letter to myself which reflects on ; Where I've Been; Where I'm Going and How I Can Be a Better Me. Last year "2010" my letter consisted of many transformations.

• 2010 Birthday Letter In Search of A "Better Me".
• Each day up until my Birthday~September 22nd I shared on my Facebook Page Reasons to a "Better Me".
• In Closing Wrap-Up, Final Thoughts & Happy Birthday To Me.

This year I have a special title, which I'll share on September 1st. Hopefully my thoughts and learning experiences this past year can help at least one individual make changes for where they are and P.U.S.H (Push~Until~Something~Happens) to follow a dream, a goal or a promise you have made to yourself. There's no better time than the present to get started. I've come FULL CIRCLE once again and I'm humbly thankful for the simple pleasure's of life. The bigger picture in life is nice, but I'm just ecstatically grateful for "BREATH" each day. Thank you heavenly father for giving me that and as long as I follow your principles there will be greater pleasures in store for me.

Placing your desires down in writing holds you accountable for your life. What you don't accomplished or even try. You have no one to blame but yourself. If you take anything from this post today know GOD has a better plan for your life. He expects nothing but goodness & greatness from you. Expect the same for yourself and come with me on this journal to share my Birthday Countdown. I would love to motivate, mentor and most importantly be mindful of your dreams. If you like ideas on how you can get started, please send ASK KIMBERLY an email, Tweet Us or post your comments here.

So Let's Get It Started!

This song is one of my anthem go to songs. If it doesn't get you motivated I don't know what will. (SMILE)

Until next time live FABULOUS...

EXCLUSIVE VLOG~REAL GIRLS DO COOK W/ CELEBRITY CHEF AMEERA...

Real Girls DO Cook ~Exclusive weekly VLOG on

the details...the drezrehersal...the I Do's...

with Celebrity Chef Ameera.

This week was extremely hectic for me as I had several oranges in the air (so to speak) juggling all at the same time. But its the renaissance woman in me to handle it all & do it well. Half stepping isn't an option. I had house guests visiting which required the foodie in me to put it down as well as attending a 3 day extravaganza High School Reunion and of course maintain the business. Yes, organization is key to juggling it "ALL".

Each week my girl Chef Ameera will share easy recipes that are not only delicious, but quite easy to test out in your own kitchen.  Cooking is sensual to the "SOUL" and we'll show you how to turn it up a notch and share a little of your heart whether its for your

significant other, the girls or family.  

Now let's get it started with Rustic Italian Bean Salad with Apple Cider Vinaigrette. The perfect recipe for those summer gatherings, bridal brunch or a lite meal after a long day at work. Real Girls NEED Real Recipes and this is one of my favorites.

drezrehersal Event Planning & Lifestyle Co.

Exclusive weekly VLOG with Chef Ameera

3 FABULOUS REAL GIRL RECIPES

Rustic Italian Bean Salad with Apple Cider Vinaigrette

Watermelon Salad w/Strawberries, Feta, Basil and a Balsamic Reduction

Refreshing Summer Beverage: Watermelon and Cucumber Virgin

We love to hear from you, so please come back and share your comments with us after trying out these 3 FABULOUS recipes. Cheers...

Until next time live FABULOUS...

In the News...Kimberly Clark~drezrehersal Event Planning & Lifestyle Co. Finalist for BizBash West Readers Choice Awards

In the News...

Kimberly Clark-drezrehersal Event Planning & Lifestyle Co.
Finalist for "Social Event Planner of the Year"

Photo by: SIPPER Photography

We were extremely excited to receive a call personally from BizBash President  a few weeks ago that Kimberly Clark of drezrehersal Event Planning & Lifestyle Co. was nominated as a finalist for the BizBash West Readers' Choice Awards in the "Social Event Planner of the Year" category!  Such an honor to be recognized by one of the top media outlets in the event planning industry. Our team takes pride in going the extra mile in all that we do. Although I'm overjoyed in being amongst other fabulous professionals we need & welcome your support in making it a "REALITY". Please cast your vote for  Kimberly Clark, drezrehersal Event Planning & Lifestyle Co. as "Social Event Planner of the Year" starting today~Tuesday, May 31st.  As many of you know this is not only a career for me its my lifestyle and I'm living, breathing  everyday like a FABULOUS Party.

About BizBash...

Founded in 2000, BizBash is the leading trade media for the event industry. BizBash exists to inspire effective special events and meetings by offering insightful editorial, sharing the latest ideas and strategies, providing essential tools and resources, and fostering community via publishing magazines and e-newsletters, hosts websites, and produces trade shows and award shows for corporate event and meeting professionals, event marketers, and sales, public relations, fund-raising, and human resource executives. BizBash is committed to assisting their readers and show attendees to uncover ideas, gather resources, find inspiration, enhance their careers, and most importantly, create effective meetings, events, promotions, and other face-to-face opportunities. BizBash serves the following markets: Boston, Chicago, Las Vegas, Los Angeles, Miami/South Florida, New York, Orlando, Toronto and Washington

BizBash will be celebrating the nominees and announcing the winners at the BizBash West Expo & Awards on Tuesday, June 14th at the Pasadena Convention Center at 5 p.m. Over 40,000 people participated in BizBash Readers' Choice Awards held in New York and South Florida this past year. It has become one of the most popular features of the Expo, and has exploded on social media channels.Voting Rules: Voting opens today Tuesday, May 31st at 9:00 am PST and close Sunday, June 12th at 11:59 pm PST. Voting will be limited to one vote per person per day. Rest assured voting will be monitored during the process for abuse. However, sharing is caring so please feel free to share the link with your network. 

Thank you in advance to our clients, colleagues, associates, friends, family and a special thanks to the BizBash readers who nominated drezrehersal Event Planning & Lifestyle Co. We are humbly grateful  for your continued support in following us on this journey we call a FABULOUS Party.

Until next time live FABULOUS
~Kimberly Clark

It's all in the details... SIMON G. Rose Gold Earrings

It's all in the details... SIMON G. Rose Gold Earrings by ASK KIMBERLY... featuring simon g. jewelry
It’s all in the details… Once upon a time there was a Wedding Planner who had a full day of events. An afternoon engagement party & then an evening wedding. A girl on the move needs choices to strike a pose with one perfect outfit and a key accessory; Simon G. Rose Gold Earrings. She transforms one outfit from afternoon to evening with the perfect accent her bling earrings. And afternoon (left) to evening (right) interchanging shoes & purse going from POW to WOW. Yes, this is how we live everyday like a FABULOUS Party.




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 Want to live Bling Fabulous? Come in close for all the details…Create your perfect outfit with the polyvore sets using the Simon G. earrings for a chance to “WIN” a pair of Simon G. diamond and white gold hoop earrings. Hurry though you only have until April 8th. And once you’re done come back & share the link with us. Good Luck!


Until next time live FABULOUS!

In the Presence of Spring...

Welcome to “SPRING” Ohhhh the sound of spring just makes you want to move into action and do a few jumping jacks. Spring can mean many things to people; A time for rejoicing, rejuvenating & revamping. Spring for me equals a fresh start. A time of freeing your mind, body & soul. I open my arms to grab hold of all God’s Greatness…with that comes cleansing. Looking deep inside your soul searching an inner presence that belongs & purging what has no place to move forward.

GODDESS OF SPRING
ARTIST: HANS ZATZKA

Letting go and moving forward doesn’t always mean you no longer have a want or need for a certain existence in your life. It just means your existence is much more important and the life of happiness you wish to spring into action requires Tough Love. In order to live the life God wants you to have it doesn’t require you to let obstacles, walls & naysayers stay in your presence. What you can accomplish with two or three; you can defiantly accomplish with one. And the one that counts most and continues to be by your side is “GOD”.

Happiness is a decision you make, not an emotion you feel. Make the decision to live in happiness. Your happiness! Throughout my day, I have the opportunity to speak with many people. On occasion what  I hear is un-happiness. Individuals going through their day-to-day non-existing. You can make a choice to live a fulfilled life. No matter what you’re going through; know Today is A New Day! Many setbacks you’ve had; Today is A New Day! Don’t settle, don’t stay stagnant. Step above, Step beyond just existing. If your spouse doesn’t have faith in you & the naysayers continue to hate. Walk in his presence & say to yourself Today is A New Day. Think “SPRING”…Spring your thoughts in the right direction and place your focus on today.

The minute the energy shifts PRESS PAUSE than move FORWARD for Today is A NEW DAY.



PRESS +





PAUSE + PURGE



 ÷ SPRING FORWARD = A NEW DAY

drezrehersal Tip...PRESS + PAUSE + PURGE  ÷ SPRING FORWARD = A NEW DAY…

GET UP CLOSE & PERSONAL... with KIMBERLY CLARK

ASK KIMBERLY...On all things Relationships, Weddings, Events & Lifestyle Planning

ASK KIMBERLY... Today we're asking you the question & taking a survey of all my single readers Men & Women & people who visit or follow our Blog. 




Ques: We Want To Know Are You Single? Please take a moment & reply in the comment section with a "YES" & your contact information. If you'd like to be kept anonymous, please let us know when commenting. If you follow me on Twitter you may also reply with a "YES". Like to go deeper please share some of your dating challenges. We're working on something "BIG" & need your support & dating stories good, bad or in-different.



drezrehersal Tip...Whether dating or in a relationship if you allow yourself to be treated like "LEFTOVERS" All you'll ever get or receive is "SCRAPS".


ASK KIMBERLY here... Have a relationship, wedding, event, or lifestyle question? Just reply with a comment back to this post or visit our cinchcast link Live everyday like its a FABULOUS Party! If you like to be kept anonymous email me at: kclark@drezrehersal.com in subject line place ASK KIMBERLY & you'll be able to hear your answer on a future cinch pod-cast & listen directly at the top right hand corner of the details...the drezrehersal...the I Do's... Blog.

Until next time Live Fabulous...

Get Up Close & Personal...

ASK KIMBERLY...What Are You Thankful For This Thanksgiving?

Ques:What are you thankful for this Thanksgiving?

Answer: I'm thankful for the early mornings of stillness & silence so I have the opportunity to count my blessings whether large or small. Asking God to continue guiding my footsteps so I may walk in his GREATNESS for he is why I have breath, good health & his faithfulness to go on each & everyday for he holds me when obstacles step in, but encourages me with Grace, Faith and Hope that this too shall pass.



ASK KIMBERLY here... Have a relationship, wedding, event, or lifestyle question? Just reply with a comment back to this post or visit our cinchcast link Live everyday like its a FABULOUS Party! If you like to be kept anonymous email me at: kclark@drezrehersal.com in subject line place ASK KIMBERLY & you'll be able to hear your answer on a future cinch pod-cast & listen directly at the top right hand corner of the details...the drezrehersal...the I Do's... Blog.
 
You may also follow Us at Chocolate Brides where we have a more extensive ASK KIMBERLY column. For a detailed list of our post type in the search box ASK KIMBERLY. No question is too small, however my answers are very detailed, so you'll always be well informed with advice from a seasoned Event Producer with over 16 years experience in all things relationships, weddings, events and lifestyle planning.

CHOCOLATE LOVE at it's FINEST...PURE ESSENCE

In the Beginning... Kesha & Eugene


The Beginning of Chocolate LOVE~ Kesha Monk, planning a New York wedding while living in Chicago and her fiance' Eugene living in Los Angeles was no easy task. They both depended on the Internet in search of wedding resources for their nuptials; while eagerly viewing site after site Kesha quickly learned there was a tremendous void in the wedding marketplace. The void was: extreme difficulty finding anything that truly represented her as a bride of color. Several mainstream wedding websites were unable to provide the newly engaged coupled wedding inspiration that would specifically represent the two of them and their culture. I'm a huge advocate that sometimes you need to create your own destiny and not wait on others to pave the way for you. Kesha was just as determined to create the link, that was a missing void in a multi-million dollar industry. A place where many flavors of chocolate could come search, create and share lasting memories of a very special day~ Their Wedding Day.

Chocolate Brides was born...

Husband & Wife Team~Kesha Monk & Eugene Myrick

ChocolateBrides.com is the #1 bridal on-line destination for African American women. Chocolate Brides often form lasting friendships that extend beyond the wedding. They have quickly become a multi-platform destination point for the African American bridal community. CB affords women the opportunity to keep journals in categories such as bridal planning, personal, pregnancy, house hunting, weight loss, etc. CB mission is to not only assist with the wedding planning process, but to help women connect with one another and the world around them.


drezrehersal Event Planning and Lifestyle Co. is proud to be part of the movement, as we are a resident contributing Blogger and Kimberly Clark the creative mind & producer of drezrehersal Event Planning and Lifestyle Co also has a weekly Wedding Wednesday column called ASK KIMBERLY! Should any Bride or Groom have a wedding , event or lifestyle question? They can email us and we'll post the answer anonymously at ChocolateBrides.com the following Wedding Wednesday.

Chocolate Brides is paving the way that African American women come in variety of shades and flavors. And are beautiful , educated ,confident and OH YES we do get married and make beautiful Chocolate Brides regardless of the flavor. It's not about being separate , but equal across the board, this applies to Networks, Reality TV and Magazines just to name a few. Congratulations to Chocolate Brides & Essence for allowing the Founder Kesha Monk to share the birth of Chocolate Brides , now the #1 African American destination on-line website. Why Chocolate Brides? Find out on Essence.com. Kudos Essence for continuing to showcase the true Essence of Pure Black Love.

A Message from the Founder Kesha Monk


The nucleus of the Chocolate Brides brand is, has and will always be the message board. We have transformed into a full blown, worldwide movement. We feel EXTREMELY blessed to have had the opportunity to virtually witness so many women become engaged, get married, purchase homes, have children & become entrepreneurs. God has blessed us EVEN MORE by planting the seeds of this sisterhood with thousands of bright, goal oriented, positive, loving Chocolate women from all over this planet which in turn, fuels this website daily.

Our Motto... “Chocolate Brides is more than a website, we’re FAMILY!” but now we feel that Chocolate Brides is more than family….it’s a MOVEMENT! It is obvious to all who visit ,that we're not  just about weddings. We are about promoting loving marriages, building friendships and supporting one another through the highs and lows of life.
ChocolateBrides.com without a doubt, is the most compelling website on the Internet not just brides, but wives, mothers-well…..just WOMEN! (and men too! ☺)

Come see what Chocolate love is all about and if you love the site you'll like Chocolate Brides to Chocolate Bonds - THE EVOLUTION on Facebook.

the details...Chocolate Bride~Vanilla Groom "The Flavors of LOVE"

There are many choices in choosing Ice Cream. Vanilla, Chocolate, Strawberry, Chocolate Chip so many more. Who says we need to like only one flavor? The same goes for love…



When it comes to the flavors of love, how many are there? MANY! Sometimes you choose love and sometimes love chooses you. Either way there are no limitations on the flavors of love. It’s a choice and no one has the right to be judge and jury of your relationship. Be open to the possibilities and when you least expect it love just might step in.

Today’s flavor of love is Chocolate Bride, Brittany and Vanilla Groom, Cameron – a combination of Pralines ‘N Cream, their ice cream of choice.

About the Bride: Brittany is a high school teacher in Houston , TX and has been teaching for 3 1/2 yrs , holds a bachelors degree in music and trained in voice to sing opera. About the Groom: Cameron graduated from Texas Bible Institute in 2006 and is currently finishing his Bachelor of Science degree in audio production at The Art Institute. Currently he is the lead guitarist at Houston Worship Center and also teaches guitar lessons for a major retail store.

The Beginning…“When I was in Houston on business a year ago, Brittany and I meet for lunch and at that time she was single. Deciding to take a step back on dating and seek more of a spiritual journey to re-establish a relationship with the Lord. Something I believe in for any relationship to stand on its own. Brittany’s decision to put God first was setting her steps for a new beginning and their beginning started at Church. The couple’s families have known each other for years through Brittany Dad congregation. However, the couple had never meet until she started going to the Church where Cameron worships and is lead guitarist. By the way Brittany now sings there. Match made in musical heaven? Absolutely!”


The Middle: On May 27th, Cameron surprised Brittany at the high school where she is a speech and debate teacher. One of her students who also is taking cosmetology mentioned to Brittany that she had written an essay about her favorite teacher. The favorite teacher was Brittany and the student won the essay contest. The prize was a free manicure from the cosmetology department. The student asked Miss Rodgers if she could come and get her manicure during her 6th period conference time? Of course, she agreed! Who would pass up the opportunity to get a free Mani! There was just 2 minutes left during her conference time and she needed to get back to class. Upon entering her class she noticed on the chalk board “WILL YOU MARRY ME?” Cameron came from the corner followed by her sister, a few faculty members with flowers in hand. Next thing Cameron was down on bended knee. By this time the bell had rung, a crowd of students had gathered by the door cheering and clapping.

Bride-to-Be Quote “It was amazing, better than I could have ever imagined!”


To be continued… Oh and of course she said “YES” When you have a solid foundation to start with the blessings are yours. I’m so happy for Brittany and Cameron. We wish them peace, unconditional love and happiness as they start their new life together. I did ask the couple a few key questions, as they both know some people only believe in one flavor, but we believe love has many Flavors.

Ques: How long had you two dated before Cameron Proposed and have you set a Wedding Date yet?


Answer: “We dated for 9 months. Our wedding date is January 1, 2011. New Year~New Beginnings!”

Ques: Have you two encountered any obstacles in your relationship and if so how will you both handle them?

Answer: “We both weren’t raised to see the difference in color, but we’re not blind. We may encounter some judgment – but with that being said, we both have a strong spirituality for God and are considering premarital counseling through my Dad’s congregation for 3 weeks as well as Cameron & I home church for an additional 3 weeks.”

Ques: What was different with Cameron than past relationships?

Answer: “I felt really comfortable with him right away and he didn’t play any games. We bonded spiritually and mentally. I can say we are truly best friends.”


Ques: What’s your favorite flavor of ice cream?

Answer: “We both love Pralines’N Cream!”

drezrehersal Quote: Don’t Judge a book by it’s cover read all the chapters before you become Judge and Jury.

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This Just In... I have been ask to be a contributing Blogger for ChocolateBrides.Com , the #1 bridal online destination for African American women. Chocolate Brides have quickly become a multi-platform destination point for the African American bridal community. There mission is not only to assist with the wedding planning process, but to help women connect with one another and the world around them. We're not just a website, we're FAMILY! And we're not just family, we're a MOVEMENT!


I will Blog every Wednesday, which in Social Media it's considered #Wedding Wednesday. The prefect day I thought for future brides to visit the website and get the latest on the details...the drezrehersal...the I Do's of weddings, events and lifestyle planning.

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