ASK KIMBERLY REVIEW~ALWAYS HIT ON THE WINGMAN

Always Hit On the Wingman by JAKE


America's most trusted dating columnist with GLAMOUR Magazine

Any day is a good day when the UPS man shows-up with an unexpected package. It was the most perfect rainy day. Yes, I said perfect rainy day. I love when there's nothing on the schedule and I can just kick my feet-up and relax. All that's missing is a good book. And suddenly there's a knock at the door, but by the time I get to the door. My handsome UPS driver is long gone, but leaves my package.


OK don't get to crazy now, he knew I was home. Just a note I don;t recommend this unless you & your driver have a clear understanding. Plus you must also take into consideration the Thief. Enough about the UPS man. I already know where its from by the address on the label Conde Nast. I rip it open and see the dating book everyone has been asking for. “Always Hit On the Wingman”. Yes, I've been privilege to get first dibs on and provide my ASK KIMBERLY point of view. Now all I need are some snacks.

First some back history on Jake...

For more than fifty years, Glamour magazine's Jake columnist has served as a dating consigliere for millions of American women. Now, in his trademark no-B.S. Voice, Jake offered this indispensable guide for women. What are men really thinking? Among many other secret girl questions, I wont go into great 411 about. Jake has shared a man point of view insight, since 1956.


ASK KIMBERLY point of view...


I grab the book & immediately got comfortable to read it. Cover to cover all 191 pages of it. Anything relationships I'm all in. Its in my nature... The joyful romantic Virgo. I hadn't even got to the contents page & Jake has me laughing histrionically with his intro page: For everyone woman who's ever worn edible lingerie, Facebook-stalked a guy, or gone to bed with her phone on (just in case) and thought: There's got to be a better way. ROTFL (Rolling on the floor laughing). I can only admit to one and that's sleeping with my cell in the bed. I do it all the time & not because I'm waiting on a call. I use it as my alarm to wake-up in addition to read my scriptures first thing in the a.m. That's my story & I'm sticking to it.


I'll Call You... (Is this you ladies~View link)

On to Jake story...


To give you an idea about who Jake is, he's quite similar to Carrie Bradshaw from Sex in the City. There are a few differences though. Jake is kept anonymous and Jake provides a male perspective for the ladies. Jake provides real life stories, suggestions & insights to do the dating thing better. The book is filled with Aha Moments on Why you should Hit On the Wingman...and 9 other Secret Rules for getting the love life you want. There is also an essential secret on achieving that. I won't give it away, but I totally agree with Jake. Let's just say I'm that girl. Every now & then I found myself in tears laughing, because I just cant believe what women will do all in the name of LOVE. Throughout the book Jake shared some insights, so I tweeted a few with all my tweeps. Here are a few of my favorites


1. The best men don't send expensive flowers (Don't be upset you must read. Jake is keeping it real Chivalry).


2. You've got to broadcast your personality. If you're a nerd, let your nerd flag fly.


3. If he seems like a throwback, that's because he is a throwback.


4. You should fart in front of your guy just once. Just so you have the monkey off your back. (Remember Jake said this not me). I was laughing to myself for a good five minutes after I read this one.


I would love to share more with you, but I like you to experience what I experienced. I can truly say I'm really glad I'm comfortable in my own skin. Once you become the true you. You can most certainly laugh about the silly things & not take life so seriously. Embracing love is an extraordinary moment that can last a lifetime. Discovering who you are first, while connecting with someone else regardless if its for a season or a lifetime. Just enjoy the footsteps as you fall. Just when you do make sure he's the right person to catch you.


PS... As I mentioned earlier in my review Jake has been around for fifty-six-year's. Now not sure if you really got what I was saying. However let me break it down. There have been over a dozen Jakes during the years. A big part of the deal of being Jake is Jake must be single. “Always Hit On the Wingman” was written by one of the most recent. Without giving to much I'm elated to say Jake has fallen and found the perfect girl to catch him. Honestly that was the best part of reading the Wingman. Never underestimate the wingman.

Until next time live FABULOUS...

MOCHA WRITER turns MOCHA WIFE...

the drezrehersal...

Jamie Fleming-Dixon
Better Know As
Mocha Writer

I had the pleasure of speaking with Jamie Fleming what seems like now years ago.  She interviewed me for her Blog for colored girls. FCG, a personal development blog inspiring & empowering women to live their most Fabulous lives. Something I truly believe in 24-7. Since than Jamie & I have not only developed a business relationship, but a personal sister-ship. I know how complicated it can be when you're a entrepreneur, daughter, sister, good friend, and girlfriend turned fiancee. All while trying to have quality time for yourself. We'll I'm happy to say she can add “WIFE” to those fabulous list of titles.

the details...

Although I wasn't the planner for her wedding I stayed very close to her as she prepared for this precious day. Just like a mama bear making sure she received all the right things, while trying to enjoy the planning process at the same time. Preparing for a wedding can be a difficult task, when you have many hats to wear. If I saw a Facebook post or Tweet I found alarming. I was on it right away making sure she stayed focused and remembering the real reason for this “UNION”.

drezrehersal Tip... If relationships were easy; we would "ALL" be in one. The easy part is falling in "LOVE". The hard part is "Staying in Love".

Jamie & Christopher's
Engagement Session
A Day of Fun & Falling In Love
all over again

Planning a wedding can be extremely stressful and bring out parts of you, neither of you knew you had. I always recommend before a couple even considers taking that step. You must get real with each other. If you think planning a wedding is stressful,  just think about spending a lifetime with someone you no longer LOVE.

I didn't need to worry about this with Jamie she's a writer and writer's are methodological. Following steps and checking all the fine details. Their “UNION” is solid. As business associate, sister friend and most importantly a Wedding Planner who always wants the details... I'm happy to share a Q & A and a sneak peek into Mocha Writer now Mocha Wife Wedding Day.“Enjoy”

the I Do's...

1. Mocha Groom & Mocha Bride say I Do...?
Answer: We Do... Mr. Christopher Dixon and Mrs. Jamie Fleming-Dixon.


Ques: 2. Please share with our readers the date, location of ceremony & wedding?
Answer: Both the ceremony and reception were held at the John W. Swails Center at Emmanuel College in Royston, GA.


Ques: 3. Did you two say your own vows? If yes, what was expressed.
Answer: Chris & I decided to go with the traditional wedding vows. Our eyes spoke those un-spoken words that only him & I knew just how much this day meant to us.


Ques: 4. How Will you Honor your Commitment to your Husband?
Answer: I will love him through good and rough times, always be a shoulder to lean on; I will respect him as a man, encourage and comfort him when necessary. I will stay true to him and be the best woman and wife I can possibly be.


Ques: 5. What does LOVE mean to you?
Answer: Love means: being free completely, 100% be yourself, still loving someone when you don’t like their behavior, picking and choosing your battles wisely, letting go, trusting that someone else has your best interest at heart. I also love this quote that I think defines love: "Love is giving someone the chance to break your heart, but trusting them not to."


Ques: 6. What was the most memorable part of your wedding? I like to hear both your answers.  
Jamie's Answer: Both my mom and dad walked me down the aisle; the plan was for my mom to walk until she got to her seat, and my dad would walk me to the altar. Well, apparently, my mom couldn’t figure out where her seat was, so she was talking all the way down the aisle. My dad and I kept shushing her, telling her to be quiet and telling her that she would know when to sit down, but she kept talking. So, basically, we talked the whole way down the aisle, and I was shaking my head…it was fun though. (Brides chuckles after answering).
Christopher's Answer: My nephew (the ring bearer) cried during the whole ceremony, and my brother kept trying to cover his mouth and wipe his nose. (Groom chuckles after answering).


Ques: 7. If you could do it all over again-What would you do different?
Answer: I would not let other people stress me out, and I wouldn’t stress myself out either. I would’ve reminded myself that although my wedding day is one of the most important days in my life, it’s just one day.

Always Follow GOD's Footsteps
for a Blessed Union.

Thank you Jamie & Chris. You both know just how much I love your #5 answer. So my advice to you when times get tough and each of you feel you're right. Think back to that answer and I can guarantee you things won't seem so bad. Better yet write the Ques & Answer down and place it in a frame with your favorite wedding photo. It will become your peace maker.


Congratulations again. Myself and the drezrehersal team wishes you both a beautiful union of eternity. To learn more about Jamie Fleming-Dixon better know as Mocha Writer, please follow her on Twitter or view her inspiring Blog for colored gurls.

Until next time live FABULOUS...

Photography By: Nakeshia Saunders of NakeshiaRenee Photography

GLAM'ONDAY ALERT...WEEK #2 with SALLY HANSEN CRACKLE OVERCOAT POLISH

As promised it's week two & we're still testing out different color combinations with Sally Hansen new crackle nail polish. Last week I tested the crackle overcoat polish on my toes, so this week I'm feeling flirty & given attention to my nails. We'll I actually pampered myself last week, but you get to see the results this week.

How Does It Look?

Week #2 Tested w/ Sally Hansen Crackle Overcoat
Fractured Foil underneath VIP PINK

Sally Hansen crackle overcoat polish was all the RAVE on Memorial Day. It took me a little time to get use too, until the compliments started rolling in. I quickly said to myself Sally Hansen may have something here. A glamnista is always prepared wherever she goes with an emergency style kit. I'll explain the details of an emergency style kit at a later date, now back to memorial day and the rave reviews. After family, friends, even future glamnista's (little girls) Ooh & Aah over the design, they all ASK where can we get the crackle polish? You're in luck I have some samples you all can try out. So we get a manicure-pedicure table going & went to town testing out colors. I must say it was pretty funny to see everyone argue over certain colors; hearing them say don't copy me. Hmmm where might have they heard that saying before? LOL.  The guys felt a little ignored that the ladies were all hovering over the mani-pedi table. Get a group of girls together where being glam is the topic, yes you loose our attention for a hour or two. Remember to check back next week for my week three design.  Remember we want to hear from you if you have purchased the crackle overcoat polish or had your manicurist apply for you. So, please leave your comments on the below link.

drezrehersal Tip...Keep it simple for the best results. For the future glaminista's (little girls) a precious mommy & me time is let your daughter have a variety of solid base coats on each nail, then placing a subtle Sally Hansen Crackle Overcoat on top.


Until next time live FABULOUS...

GLAM'ONDAY ALERT...VINTAGE BRIDAL JEWELRY & RAFFLE

Stella & Dot Vintage pieces are the perfect accent for a Bride-to-Be who wants to feel like a celebrity on her wedding day. On your wedding day you will be the star, but there are numerous celebrities who are rocking the affordable Stella & Dot collection. Let's roll the credits of a few stars...


Giuliana Rancic, Tia Carrere, Viola Davis, Jane Krakowski, Anna Lynne McCord, Penelope Cruz and Save the Best for last and styling one of our featured pieces: Cheryl Burke from Dancing with the Stars.  Stella & Dot collection is thee hottest jewelry line out there right now and has been featured in several magazines such as:In-Style,In-Style Weddings, Cosmopolitan, People, Lucky, Redbook, Modern Bride, OPRAH and its recent feature in Essence Magazine June issue hitting news stands this week. And of course the item featured is a Stella Vintage Link Necklace.

Petra Braided Bracelet: B120 $98.00
Petra Fringe Earrings: E114S $59.00


 

My favorite piece for a wedding & Stella's top selling style, the Petra Braided Bracelet. A fabulous fashion choice for an elegant day or evening wedding. Here Comes the Bride in her gorgeous vintage gown and the beautiful pieces that compliments her one of a kind dress. A bride & groom's wedding day should be timeless, elegant and leaves the guests breathless by her beauty. The one thing guest's long to see is the bride in her wedding gown. Selecting the right jewelry to compliment your dress is essential. However accessorizing your wedding gown should be effortless with irresistible chic additions that make every bride sparkle.


The vintage styles will work well with a slim gown, lace all over or as an accent, a trumpet silhouette, draped head to-toe in chic lace creates a traditional, but not ordinary wedding look. And finally if you prefer a full ball gown; this will add a bit of romance to your vintage wedding. Try on several to see what silhouette works best for your body type. To add a little trend to your vintage look try with a sparkly belt to play up a glitzy headband even adding the Vintage Starburst Broach for a wow factor. Or pick one with pockets-the ultimate chic and of course a convenient detail.

Vintage Starburst Broach:Item #BR104S Price: $49.00
A testament to artisanship, this classic, Chanel-inspired brooch took us two years of sampling before getting it perfect. A vintage costume piece worthy of fine jewelry techniques, each crystal stone is hand set, each prong hand closed. Wear it on your lapel or as the focal point for the La Coco chain. Click on the Video tab above for more ideas. Measures approximately 1¾" in diameter with pin backing. Also available in gold.

GLAM'ONDAY ALERT GIVEAWAY:

the details...Want to look GLAM FAB for your wedding day or maybe you're part of the bridal party & would like to give the bride this gorgeous bracelet. We'll all you need to do is LIKE the stylist Facebook Page from May 16th-May 30th and be enter to win the Petra Beaded Bracelet that Dancing with the Stars celebrity Cheryl Burke is wearing. The winner will be notified by a in-box direct message on facebook, as well on shown on the wall of the Facebook Fan Page on Monday, May 30th. You may also enter by leaving a comment in the Blog Post and telling us your wedding date.

GLAM'ONDAY ALERT BONUS...
Are you a glamnista who loves accessorizing, but can't quite afford it? We have a special offer just for you that will leave you styling for all seasons. Host a truck show indulge your friends and get your favorite piece for free plus 50% off additional styles. You could receive up to $250 in free jewelry. Your girl's will adore the style and you'll enjoy your new jewelry wardrobe. It's 2 hours or less, casual, and most of all, FUN. What's not to love? For more information, please contact Anna Medakovich and she'll be happy to give you all the details or to view the entire collection, please visit the E-Studio.

drezrehersal Tip... My clients adore the Stella & Dot line and hosting a bridal party for your girls is a great way to let the ladies select their own jewelry for your wedding day. Just give them a couple of options that match your wedding design and tell them its on you. Your small token of appreciation for them saying yes to being part of your “Special Day”. To make it more relaxing & exciting add a Wine & Cheese Pairing to the event. ASK KIMBERLY how.

Until next time live FABULOUS...

*Images Courtesy of Anna Medakovich- Stella & Dot Stylist

Need S'More...Mother's Day Gift Ideas?




Turn these S'Muffins into a
 beautiful bouquet of edible treats

 
Offer these bite size treats to the end of a beautiful Mother's Day. Nothing gets to the heart better then a little sweet for the tummy. Gotta Have S'More~S'Muffins. It's all the RAVE around town and thee dessert to have for your next gathering. Show Mom just how much you LOVE her with a yummy spring treat personalized just for her.


What is a S'Muffin? We'll I say it's a PARTY in your mouth, but seriously... S’Muffins are a stylish and unique twist on the traditional S’more. These bite sized desserts blend a delicate balance of graham cracker, marshmallow with a scrumptious array of flavors for an original dessert that is absolutely irresistible. Perfect for a Mother's Day Brunch...

Leave the box of chocolates at the store and share a WOW factor alternative with these delightful Chocolate Covered S'Muffins. Ohhhh YES the perfect mother's day gift for your mom, sister, aunt or even treat yourself.

What are you waiting for? Time is ticking call them now! You can thank me later.

Enjoy and Happy Mother's Day...

ASK KIMBERLY...TALK 2 ME TUESDAY

ASK KIMBERLY receives many questions by email on everything from relationships, weddings, events & lifestyle day-day issues. Although we try to answer them all it just isn't possible. So we have started Talk 2 Me Tuesday where you can join us by ping on Yahoo Messenger  & have the opportunity to communicate with me on a private chat & ASK KIMBERLY anything related to the above topics. Have a One-On-One with me when you see I'm signed into Yahoo! Messenger!

Our scheduled chat time will be from 2:00 pm - 3:00 pm PST, however there may be times where we may skip a Tuesday due to us being on the move planning events. If you're un-able to join us  you may still email  ASK KIMBERLY your question & you just may hear the answer live on her Get-Up Close & Personal CinchCast. We like to be hands on & share our expertise with you, whether you're planning a small dinner party; need decor advice; or just have a puzzling relationship question ASK away.



ASK KIMBERLY
Talk 2 Me Tuesday
2:00 pm - 3:00 pm

Here's How It Works...
~ When reviewing our Blog you'll see the Pingbox toward the right of the page. On Talk 2 Me Tuesday we're available from 2:00 pm - 3:00 pm PST to answer your questions on all things relationships, weddings, events or lifestyle planning.

~ You'll see Available within the Pingbox; Enter nickname to chat with me; then just type your question into the box. Be patient though, as we may be chatting with other ASK KIMBERLY visitors. To be added to our contact list & be the first to receive updates, please send us a request @weplanevents. However we like to know who you are, so if your profile on Yahoo isn't set-up, most likely you won't be added to our database.  This helps us update our Un-Subscribe list properly should you decide not to receive future updates.

In the very near future we will have a in-detail scheduled ASK KIMBERLY  where we all get to engaged with each other. You just may see a question ask by a visitor that you didn't even think of.

Until next time live FABULOUS...

Disclaimer...IMs between you and each Pingbox visitor are private. Only you and person you are chatting with can see the IMs, even if there are multiple visitors viewing our web page. Our scheduled chat time will be from 2:00 pm - 3:00 pm PST, however there may be times when we may skip a Tuesday due to us being on the move planning events.

ASK KIMBERLY Exclusive with Who's Who in Bridal "Armine" of R-Mine Bridal

ASK KIMBERLY Exclusive with Who's Who in Bridal "Armine" of R-Mine Bridal







A sneak peek to what's in store for BRIDALPALOOZA LA-LA LAND: ASK KIMBERLY Exclusive interview with Who’s Who in Bridal Armine' of R-Mine a Bridal & Evening Couture Boutique.

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Exclusive

Tips, Trends & All Things Weddings...

Armine’ offers the finest & freshest designs from the leading designers of the international bridal world. She has also established herself as a leading designer of a prestigious private couture collection that is available exclusively through her boutique. Her designs have been worn by a growing number of celebrity brides. Recent celebrity clients such as Martin Lawrence Bride Shamicka Gibbs, Kendra Wilkinson's wedding to wide receiver Hank Baskett as well as Sara Rue which is featured on pages 58-59 of the latest issue of OK Magazine. Photo shows Sara Rue wearing a custom design by R-Mine on left & designer Christos on right. Photo of designer Armine' & Sara Rue featured as well!

Actress Sara Rue wearing a custom design
 by R-Mine

Yes, that's why Armine' is not only considered the Who’s Who in Bridal, but her work also gracing red carpets throughout the entertainment & recording industry. We love her here at drezrehersal Event Planning & Lifestyle Co., and I'm pleased to share her custom bridal gowns for our VIP Bridal Tour on 02.27.11. Your wedding day is the one day you should think extraordinary, uniquely yours & have a one of kind custom gown designed just for you. No audition needed you already have the man, the ring now let’s design a gown that says I’m the Star for the day. Now I’m Ready For My Close-Up.

ASK KIMBERLY!

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Have more fashion questions? Come join us between 11/30-12/4 from 10:00 am -5:00 pm and Live Chat with a Glamour Fashion Expert. You may also email me your question and I will answer you here at the details...the drezrehersal...the I Do's. The Holiday Season can be very stressful, however remember the meaning behind it and you will enjoy every minute of it.

Peace, Love and Blessings this Holiday Season from the drezrehersal team.

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How Do I Say "YES" to the Perfect Dress?

As you start your search for the perfect dress, hit bridal boutiques armed with your own “look book,” containing magazine tear-outs, photos from friends’ weddings, fabric swatches―anything that helps you communicate your taste to the sales staff or your wedding planner. And be completely candid about your budget from the get-go. That way, you won't waste a single moment trying on dresses you'll never end up buying or could ever afford.

Keep the below points in mind when searching for your perfect dress. Start your day with a positive attitude and be open to a variety of styles. Trust me you will know the moment you have found that perfect dress. When you get that feeling, there's no turning back go with your gut and say "YES" this is my Perfect Dress.

~Don't try on dresses that fall outside your budget. It may only end in disappointment. Take the advice of the professionals, they do this for a living and have helped hundreds of brides before you.

~Keep in mind the season you will be married and ensure the fabric and style of your dress will be appropriate. Two important items you most definitely should keep in mind ; Are you having a traditional wedding or a more relaxed and casual affair?

~Don't be too concerned about trends when choosing your perfect wedding dress. Choose a dress that is comfortable and flattering to you, the style may be out in five years anyway. Year's later , you will look back on your photos and say what was I thinking?

~Shopping for your dress should be a pleasant experience. Have a support team. Key people only not a mini parade. Too many opinions can be stressful. Take your wedding planner, mother, sister or maid/matron of honor with you and squeeze in some lunch and a glass of champagne! Ultimately its your day & your decision.

This day is a pre-celebration for you and should be a wonderful experience. Stay calm and enjoy the moment. Have a question for Kimberly? Just email your question and we'll post the answer anonymously here at: the details...the drezrehersal...the I Do's.

ASK KIMBERLY...

How do you handle a close friends jealously now that you are planning your wedding and not much free time to hangout.?

If she's a true friend then you must sit down with her and talk it out-extend an olive branch. Alot of time goes into planning a wedding and often you don't have as much time as you used to and friends can fell a little isolated. Your focus has become planning your special day and spending time with your fiance and new family. If you truly value her as friend then let her know its nothing personal, however your responsibilities have shifted a bit and she should support and be happy for you as a friend. Your status has change from fiancee to bride-to-be and how important that is to you. Although you will be married soon, she is still your friend and you will most definitely make time for her. Another olive branch is to ask her to assist you with some details on your wedding. This will let her know you are committed to the friendship and how important she is , that you felt comfortable enough to asked her to assist in your special day. the I Do's: Once you say I Do your are in the honeymoon stages. Blissfully Happy. Please make sure not to forget you are separate people and each have different interest's. Some will be the same and some wont. If you isolate your friends during this time. When you really need them, they wont be there for you. You are now Mrs. ________, but you still should have your own identity. Love and respect your husband and the union you two have joined, but don't forget about your true friends who were there for you when you were single & searching.

Have a question for Kimberly? Just email your question and we'll post the answer anonymously here at: the details...the drezrehersal...the I Do's.