WHO ARE YOU???

Individuals who are hurting will
often try to reverse their "MIRROR" image
2U... Don't go for it!  Know WHO YOU ARE.

Life at times will play tricks on you or maybe its a test or even a life lesson. Recently I had to take a step back & remember You Attract Who You Are. I've been giving careful consideration to go back to school to receive a degree in Relationships Psychology. Asking myself is it even possible for me to set time a side to complete a dream ; a passion that has been in my heart for awhile now. In addition to checking off other aspirations I'm currently working on. Absolutely, one by one it shall be done. However, I'm still contemplating & pondering over the additional credential to add to my already full achievements. In the midst of it all I'm being tested & I haven't even started school yet.


You Attract Who You Are... OK let me explain this. As a Virgo I'm a compassionate, nurturing & sensitive to ones needs. A true confidant & support of those close to me and around me whether in business or personal. Its Who I Am. We are givers & when the chips are down & you need a friend we are the ones available during those testing times should you need advice or companionship. This is a positive as well as a negative. Important to know when to turn your light on & off so the forces don't drain Who You Are. I completely know Who I Am & what I will & will not stand for. I've learned early on that the opinions of others are heard but, the one I listen to, the one that matters in the end is “GOD”.


Aha....I had an Aha Moment late last night. Well actually at 1:57 a.m. Thoughts flowing , along with answers being receive by closely listening to the whisper. I immediately reach for my writing journal & put pen to paper. Hints this post. As I continuing writing so I may upload the completion by mid afternoon. I recognize the universe is testing me to make sure this is something I truly desire to do, by sending individuals to me for counsel. The interesting thing was, this was completely different because I mentor & support people all the time. Over the past several weeks I have been hit with an abundance of reverse energy. During this process of me having this Aha Moment. I also discovered I need to take my own advice.

*When people show you who they are.
“BELIEVE” it the first time.

Do not give them a second or third time.

Ding~Ding...Aha Moment. After having a conversation with a confidant, I completely got what one of the individuals was trying to do. “Discovery” Wanting me to accept their own disappointments in the cards of life they were dealt. There comes a point where you must stop feeling sorry for your circumstances & have “TRUST” & “FAITH” that God will turn things around. But it starts with you. You must be responsible for the energy people bring to you. At that exact moment I said to myself no more!

WHO ARE YOU?

I no longer know Who You Are... I can continue being a friend from a distance. This individual needs much more than I can give at this time. You can't create an identity for someone else, temporary feeding their soul. They must discover WHO they are on their own. I'm taking responsibility for the energy I desire in my life. As hard as it might be occasionally you will need to exit stage right. You can only be the motivational cheerleader for so long. Then soon that person needs to put their protective gear on & get in the game of life & play to “WIN”.

Food for the Soul...It's the faithfulness in the small things that is key to meeting life's great challenges victoriously.

Philippians 4:13
For I can do everything through Christ who gives me strength

Until next time live “FAITHFULLY” FABULOUS...

the drezrehersal...Lifestyle Lesson's in the Search for Happiness

EAT PRAY LOVE is the HOT new movie for the Summer.  A true story from Elizabeth Gilbert, One woman's search for everything across Italy, India and Indonesia. If you haven't had the opportunity to read the New York Times best selling notable book - then after reading this lifestyle experience, run to your nearest bookstore and purchase it. Don't have time for that-thank goodness for online.

To give you a little insight on what I called an experience, search for true happiness with one self. Elizabeth Gilbert in her early thirties had everything a women could every dream of or want at that age. The so called American white picket fence dream; successful career, husband and yes the American dream of owning your own home- not just any home a country home. That should make anyone happy right? Nope, instead of feeling happy and fulfilled, she was consumed by panic & confusion. Something many women go through at one point in their life. We try to be everything to everyone except the person that counts the most; yourself. I have been blessed too have many wonderful life experiences that can make you or break you. Prior to me starting my event planning business, I had the opportunity to travel some parts of the world and there's nothing more fulfilling then traveling alone across the country. In order to find out just who you are, what you want out of life and then be able to completely give yourself to a mate; you must experience spending time alone. Truly alone.

drezrehersal Tip...Before you take that journey to marriage its so important that you are fully prepared for everything the "Union" has to offer.

5 Things I recommend every women to do prior to marriage.


1. Live alone. This means living completely on your own without a roommate.
2. Travel alone. Solo, just you- No BFF, No Go-to-Girls, No Boyfriend.
3. Eat at a Five Star Restaurant- Yes Alone (Doing something special for yourself, eat till your heart is content-Really Eat, glass of wine, 3 course meal and last but not least dessert-Go for it.
4. Attend a Movie (Laugh, Cry just be one w/ you).
5. Take a Yoga Class-Solo, just you- No BFF, No Go-to-Girls. (Getting closer to your heart & soul).


It may seem trivial, but not everyone is comfortable being alone. You must learn how to spend time with yourself, before you can be part of a "UNION". If you take this journey you will learn some key points about who you really are , what your desires and dreams are for your life. Not what society says we should have. The grass isn't always greener on the other side and you never know how high that mountain was too climb for someone else's success. A successful career, diamonds & pearls, the finest car, big house, money in the bank, marriage along with the white picket fence is absolutely meaningless if you're not HAPPY.


Take a leap of faith and go see the movie EAT PRAY LOVE "ALONE". Experience the life changing moments of Elizabeth Gilbert, which is played by the beautiful Julia Roberts and you may be surprised to learn what I know will be some key points about yourself. The character in the movie travels through India, Italy and Indonesia. I have visited Bali which was a life changing experience for me and actually open my mind, heart and soul to experience life to the fullest. During that life changing moment I knew I wanted too create my own destiny, which was living everyday like a Fabulous Party. My business was born from that moment on. I am open to the possibilities that life has to offer and each day can & will be much more rewarding if you are in-tune with yourself 100%.


It's disturbing when I hear women say he completes me. No one should complete you. You are the key to your own happiness. A mate can make your life more rewarding, but should you not have someone special in your life doesn't mean you are worth anything less. Learn to love you, before you say yes to a "UNION".

EAT PRAY LOVE
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EAT PRAY LOVE Cast: Julia Roberts, James Franco, Richard Jenkins,
Viola Davis, Billy Crudup and Javier Bardem

 

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