HAPPY B'DAY LETTER IN SEARCH OF A "BETTER ME" PART II~ 22 REASONS TO A "BETTER ME"

HAPPY BIRTHDAY to ME...

If you follow my Blog you will know that on September 1, 2010, I wrote a letter to myself. Not just any letter a Birthday letter; the letter was written as a symbolic Birthday gift to share my experiences on my  journey to "GREATNESS". For 22 days of September I provided 22 Steps to a "Better Me". 22 days were chosen because it's the day of my "BIRTHDAY". Yes today is the day...so each day I provided tips to a "Better Me" which you will see below.  If one of my tips can help another, than
I'm truly grateful.  To read Part I of my
Happy Birthday Letter In Search of a "Better Me".



Living everyday like its a FABULOUS Party!



22 Reasons to a "Better Me"

1. When you finally arrive to be completely comfortable in your own skin. Ultimately
a refreshing feeling.

2. Loving Life, Loving Me, In Love with Work. The secret recipe is having a “PASSION” for all three.

3. That inner voice we hear. Its called “Intuition”~”Believe It” and “Listen to It”.

4. Once you become in-tune w/ yourself- your life direction will become clearer to finding lasting happiness & fulfillment.

5. On your journey to GREATNESS, remember to be a blessing to someone else that may be striving for where you are now.

6. In order to move forward, sometimes you must leave a few behind.

7. Dreaming is like flower, in order for the flower to grow you must water it, talk to it and give it attention. The analogy is: Nurture the flower~ Nurture your DREAM.

8. Obstacles are only Hiccups. Take a sip of "FAITH" and say this too shall pass and move on.

9. Know your "WORTH"only you can put a determination on what's real & what's counterfeit. Everything that glitters isn't always gold.

10. "Fear" is ~NEVER~ an option...

11. Its OK to say "NO". If I'm no good to Me~ I can't be good to You

12. Life is what YOU make of it. I'm making it GREAT! I accept nothing less than "GREATNESS".

13. Becoming a BOSS Blackcard Member, as I continue to Bring Out the Successful Sister in Me~I support & encourage other Successful Sisters.

14. DREAM bigger than I can ENVISION because nothing is too complicated for GOD to make a reality.

15. I'm not perfect "GOD" is still working on "Me" I acknowledge it and I'm open to change for a "BETTER ME".

16. Welcoming the Universe~Asking for what you want, Believe it shall come to path and don't dwell on it, let it go and sit back and listen closely for God's blessing.

17. Indulge in the simplest pleasures of life. LIVE life to the fullest, LOVE unconditionally, LAUGH until you need a glass of water.

18. I'm a unique individual who's completely not a carbon copy and I only follow God's footsteps and make no apologies for it.

19. Allowing circumstances to be as they are at this very moment and live in a way, that they'll be better tomorrow.

20. Nurture my mind, heart and soul daily understanding when to let go. There is a Season for everything & not all things are meant for a lifetime.

21. I'll take mine sunny side up~always look on the bright-side, think positively. What may be a no today, will be a yes tomorrow. I choose to stay in faith and place my cares & burdens in God's hands and not Man's hands.

22. "HAPPY BIRTHDAY 2 ME" Heavenly Father, thank you for your faithfulness in my life and favor for another day. I am honored and humbled for many things in my life and without your graciousness & love along with my families love & support I would not be who & where I am today. Each day is a constant blessing I'm truly grateful for. As I continue on my journey to "GREATNESS" I will continue to walk faithfully in your footsteps, asking for divine guidance through good & bad days knowing the good days make me "Great" and the bad days make me strive to be a "Better Me". Thank you in Jesus name Amen.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY to ME...

~Kimberly

Now I'm going to live today like its a FABULOUS Party!

Bonus... You may view Part I Life Lessons In Search of Happiness & Part II coming soon on Weddzilla Blog.

Photo Provided By: SIPPER Photography

(Day In the Life of An Event Planner) Kimberly enjoying a "Yummy"

Coconut Cupcake at Big Sugar Bakeshop in Studio City, CA

GLAM'ONDAY ALERT...Introducing Lauren by Ralph Lauren



Introducing Ralph Lauren



What began forty years ago with a collection of ties has grown into an entire world, redefining American style. Ralph Lauren has always stood for providing quality products, creating worlds and inviting people to take part in the dream. Ralph Lauren is not only an icon in the Fashion Industry, but contributes to an all around lifestyle that consist of fashion, accessories, home and now his newest collection of stylish handbags & small leather goods for every occasion. Each handbag is handcrafted from the finest materials luxurious italian-croc embossed leather and signature nylon jacquard to fashionable waxed cotton woven serape. Authentic equestrian straps & vintage-inspired hardware

posses beauty & integrity's synonymous with 

Lauren by Ralph Lauren design philosophy.

He is undeniably the innovator of style that can take you from the

 board room to the golf course then for an evening out

with dinner & dancing. Everyday lifestyle he can handle it all.

The Collection: find your perfect beautiful fall handbag from Ralph Lauren newest collection Lauren Handbags for every occasion. Lauren by Ralph Lauren offers woman a classic lifestyle collection with a contemporary spirit. From timeless essentials to statement making fashion, the Lauren woman relies on polished wardrobe perfect for any occasion.

Silhouette: Look for a silhouette that fits your lifestyle. A cross over shoulder tote just perfect for social gathering or a vacation that leads you on the go, switch it up with a larger bag just right for airline traveling.

Style: A woman's handbag is an expression of her personal style. Lauren Handbags offers a wide selection for every woman regardless if you are traditional glam, modern fabulous, or classic chic. The style's are endless to fit all your needs.

Details: Sumptuous leather, specialty pockets and elegant furnishing combine to create glam, fabulous chic style's to fit every woman's lifestyle.

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the details... 4 Steps to Get Bridal Blissful Skin

I often get ask what I use on my skin. Of course I'm flattered & believe beauty is not only skin deep. If your inner beauty is on point- then your outer beauty should be also, but with something less and that's make-up. Make-up should only enhance your beauty not block it. What that means is when you take off your make-up, you should still be beautiful completely looking like yourself. If someone says Oh you look different without make-up, that's not good. I'll provide you some optional choices too use to get your Bridal Blissful face in order for your Special Day. However you must start now. There are many steps I do to take care of my skin, but I'm not going to go into great detail here, but will provide you a few steps to get you started. I adore the philosophy line, the product definitely works for me. I do recommend you check with your doctor before using any new product to make sure its compatible with your skin. 


Makeup Optional Set ($129 Value)
What it is:
From cleansing, to exfoliating, to hydrating,
this complete kit contains everything you need to
get 'makeup-optional' skin at-home.

 



Step 1: Cleanse

Purity Made Simple One-Step Facial Cleaner

~Gently cleanses the skins, tones and lightly hydrates

~Essential oils and mild cleansing makes purity ideal
for all skin types, even those with sensitive skin

Step 2: Treat

When Hope is Not Enough Facial Firming Serum

~ A lightweight serum that helps firm, protect and hydrate
while minimizing the appearance of fine
 line & wrinkles~Synergistic antioxidants
 help protect against environmental attack

~Pentapeptide-3 helps improve skin's
firmness and elasticity

~Hyaluronic acid helps soften and hydrate

Step 3: Moisturize

Hope In a Jar Moisturizer for all skin types

~Daily moisturize that hydrates and
promotes smooth, healthy skin

~Lactic acid hydrates and exfoliates

~Beta glucan helps strengthen the skin's
 natural repair system

Step 4: Eye Care

Hope in a Tube Eye and lip firming cream

~A world-class eye cream that helps moisturize,
firm and diminish the appearance
 of lines around the eye and lip area

You can purchase the philosophy line at SEPHORA.



Shopping SEPHORA has it's REWARDS!
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 To make it more rewarding for you make sure to sign-up for their REWARDS Program.

The more you shop the prettier the rewards. How to Score Points: With every dollar you spend at SEPHORA one dollar is added to your beautybank balance. You can redeem your points for beauty full perks. Its a WIN~WIN.

You even receive a special gift on your Birthday. No need to go in to redeem, they will send you a friendly reminder a few weeks before your B'Day. This past Friday was T.G.I.P.M.F (Thank Goodness It's Pamper Me Friday) and it was a I'm Doing Me Day. Something every woman should do at least once a week. Pick your day. I stocked-up on all things beauty and made sure to pick-up my Birthday Gift :)

Thanks SEPHORA you keep me looking glowing

 Fabulous all year long.

Bonus drezrehersal Tip... Eat lots of fruits and vegetables that are good for the skin along with drinking plenty of H2O to hydrate your skin. If you start now ;continue to nurture & take better care of your skin you will see a change before you can say I Do. You may also view my Weddzilla post on 5 (detailed) Steps to a "Natural I'm In LOVE Glow".

Disclaimer: This product works for me, however when trying something new always check with your physician before using  to make sure its compatible with your skin. 

An Engaging Evening with Jobyna's Bridal...



INES DI SANTO

 An Engaging Evening on September 16th... I had the pleasure of being invited to a special Jobyna's Bridal by INES DI SANTO VIP event at Americana at Brand in Glendale, CA. The evening started with a Bridal Series at Jobyna's Bridal Salon pre-viewing the most stunning Bridal Couture Gowns by INES DI SANTO;elegant, chic, glamorous headpieces and accessories by Maria Elena. Next too your engagement ring bling her designs are glistening with SPARKLY BLING. Later that evening there was a private reception on the green of Americana courtyard. If you've never visited the Americana at Brand its breathtaking and absolutely one of my favorite places to shop. A little secret... I actually arrived an hour early , so I could do some shopping. I had just enough time to place my purchases in the car before hobnobbing with some of the finest people in the industry.






 

Make An Impression
with Maria Elena Headpieces & Accessories




INES DI SANTO



The Green was beautifully decorated as if it was an outside cocktail reception with the backdrop of the show stopping waterfall that goes off each evening at the Americana. As I relax and sip a little bubbly provided by Vivid Bliss, while enjoying the smooth sounds of Chuck Wansley After Hours Band. I couldn't help myself to Twitter to my followers this band is amazing, such a magical night under the stars listening to the live band sing Boogie Oogie Oogie by Taste of Honey. Wow that was a pleasant blast from the past, I absolutely love that song ; perfect song to get your guests on the dance floor. To top the evening off Jobyna's Bridal showcases a Couture Fashion Show of INES DI SANTO stunning gowns for the Fall. Not just any gowns , but show stopping, jaw dropping I'm so glad she has accepted to be my bride and now I can't wait to say I Do and make her my wife. (I Found My Everything- originally by Mary J. Blige , but have Chuck Wansley After Hours sang it for you). Just the song you would love your groom to serenade too you at your wedding reception.  Not done yet there's lots more. Special Guest Editor-In-Chief of Wedding Style "Grace Ormonde" Famed Couture Designer was on hand to share her latest hardcover book titled " being in love never goes out of style"- 416 pages, 14x 12" canvas, more than 375 images of extraordinary real weddings to inspire your imagination. Grace Ormonde was gracious enough to personally sign a copy for me. Many Thanks she's someone to admire for her continued contribution to the wedding industry. Need a little or a lot of inspiration for your Special Day you can pick-up your copy at GraceOrmondeBook.com and be on your way to the Wedding of your Dreams.



Grace Ormonde Weddings
"being in love never goes out of style"

 Warm Thanks to Angie and Isabel of Jobyna's Bridal for the special invitation, we had a magical evening. It's always nice to be on the other side of the details for a change. I love my life & career and as we always say: "Live everyday like it's a FABULOUS Party". Whether I'm planning it or just a guest its always FABULOUS...

GLAM'ONDAY ALERT... GLAMOUR'S RETAIL RALLY

Glamour's Retail Rally is here and I hold the GLAMNISTA golden ticket, 25 to be exact. Don't you just love it when you get a great hookup? We're preparing for Fall, at least I am it's my most favorite season. As a Glambassador for GLAMOUR Magazine I get the 411 on all things Fabulous in beauty, fashion and accessories;  all the key elements a

GLAMNISTA needs to stay STYLISH & CHIC... 

OK, all you need to do is send me an email with your address and I'll drop in the mail a GLAMOUR Retail Rally booklet filled with amazing deals that you won't find anywhere else. So get ready to tear out the cards and start your Fall Shopping. I almost forgot

 to mention, that a few items are FREE.

Participating Stores:

ARMANI EXCHANGE

EXPRESS

ORGINS

TALBOTS

GIORGIO ARMANI (The New Essence of Joy)

BARE ESCENTUALS

You can thank me later! Hurry though I only have 25, but to make sure you don't miss our future GLAM'ONDAY ALERTS

you should subscribe to the details...the drezrehersal...the I Do's...

GLAM'ONDAY ALERT... It's All In The Bag with Dooney & Bourke

5-4-3-2-1...Countdown to Fall and all my Go-To-Girls know that one of my most important accessory is a chic handbag. You can never have enough so , fashionably start your fall with Dooney & Bourke new addition "The Portofino Collection".




This fall it's all in the bag with Dooney & Bourke Portofino Collection, that comes in a variety of candy coated colors- just perfect for fall. A few favorites colors I'll be looking into: Jet Black-The Traditional Color that goes with everything; Chocolate Brown- Just the word Chocolate makes me think of all the dessert's I'll be eating this fall and the deep Jewel Tones- such as the Teal, the HOT color for Fall. I guess I will need to purchase all three or just maybe receive one or two for my Birthday and the third for the Holiday's. (smile)

it's all in the bag

The Portofino Collection comes in a variety of styles and many, many color's. So I'm sure you'll find your favorite color to go with your fall wardrobe. Check out these must have handbags at Dooney & Bourke today. Just to give you a little taste are a few FABULOUS styles below from the Portofino Collection. Stay on top of what Dooney & Bourke offers  on Facebook and you can also follow them on Twitter.

Portofino Zip Zip Grommet Satchel

Style #2P869

$365.00 (Bark)

L 12.5" W 8.5" H 10"

One inside zip pocket

Two inside pockets

Cell phone pocket

Inside key hook.

Zipper closure

Adjustable strap

Strap drop length: 6.5"

Portofino Medium Grommet Sac

Style #2P867

$295.00 (Teal)

L 12" W 5" H 12"

One inside zip pocket

Two inside pockets

Cell phone pocket

Inside key hook.

Magnetic closure

Adjustable strap

Strap drop length: 9"

Portofino Medium East/West Grommet Shopper

Style #2P797

$295.00 (Black)

L 10" W 6.25" H 9.5"

One inside zip pocket

Two inside pockets

Cell phone pocket

Inside key hook.

Magnetic closure

Adjustable strap

Strap drop length: 8"

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BIRTHDAY LETTER IN SEARCH OF A "BETTER ME"

09.01.10
Today is the beginning of my Birthday Month...
Birthday Letter in Search of a "Better Me"


~Starters~I know for most of us we start off by reading our daily horoscope for the day. If it says something wonderful we believe it. If its not exactly what we want to hear we call it hog wash. We'll I must admit occasionally I do view my daily horoscope, but regardless if the outcome is favorable or not so favorable ; I know it's just something to get me going. What I read doesn't make what will happen for that day. I make what will happen for that day, by my thoughts and actions. So for the sake of FUN I'm going to share what my Horoscope says for the month of September provided by Glamour Magazine Glamourscope & Cosmo Astrologer. Just to give you an insight my Birthday falls on the cusp, so sometimes I'm a Virgo and other times I'm a Libra. I'm definitely a true VIRGO though.

Virgo/Libra Cusp (September 19-23):Virgo is ruled by Mercury, is an Earth element and Mutable (changeable) in quality. Libra is ruled by Venus, is an Air element and Cardinal (active) in quality. Virgo's devotion to lending aid and support works quite nicely with Libra's need to create partnership. The best balance between the two is by starting an endeavor that benefits others through the expression of creativity, beauty or love.

"Happy Birthday Virgo"Glamourscope

Why You're Wonderful: Earthy and centered , you're a non material girl in a material world. Why You're Impossible: You like things perfect, but that sometimes prompts you to criticize those who love you most. Please ease up!


The new moon and mercury in your sign means you're oozing confidence right now. Your can-do attitude is contagious. On September 13, ask for what you want and others will be more than happy to help.

Cosmo Astrologer: Get a sneak peek at what to look forward to... and what to watch out for.

Strength: Devoted, independent, vivacious
Weakness: Snippy, skeptical, obsessive
What makes you sexy: Thanks to your straight-shooter style and gregarious nature, it's easy for you to collect friends where ever you go. Guy's can't help but fall hard for your adventurous spirit...and your super-coy smile.

Your birthday month: You're game for new experiences under exhilarating Mercury around the 3rd. Sign up for lessons that sound challenging, anything from baking to belly dancing. Succeeding at a new activity boosts your confidence; use that surge to tackle an ambitious work project of fearlessly flirt with your crush. Dating tip: The guy you're seeing wants to lock you down for himself near the 7th. You do like him and he has prime BF potential, but you must put on the brakes and take it slow. Love advice: Was too steamy to write. (Sorry)

Both horoscopes have some favorable points that are true in nature and can be a guide for certain situations. Just to touch on a few: By no means am I perfect, but I do like organizational and structure in my life. I don't believe in sugar coating what needs to be said and live by Mean What You Say & Say What You Mean. I will get into more detail as the month progress's on Life Lessons In Search of Happiness for a Better Me. A little look into my life as a Daughter, Sister, Auntie, Friend, Confidant, Mentor and Entrepreneur.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME~

Living life like everyday is a FABULOUS Party...

Every year prior to my Birthday month I reflect on the year and review goals, dreams ambitions I have set out for myself. Whether I have accomplished them or not. Life isn't a dress rehearsal and each day counts for something. Life is short and it goes by so quickly. I remember when I was 29 and let it be know I'm still 29 (smile). One thing I can truly say is I'm blessed to have good genes. Thank you Mommy. It doesn't stop there though, but I'll get into a little later. Celebrating another birthday is a blessing and not to reflect on your life is a disadvantage to the growth of you as an individual. I started with the horoscope to set a tone, that it's all in FUN, however my daily recipe for guidance in my life is "GOD". Without him nothing is possible and my guidance & direction for my life comes from faith and daily prayer. Each morning the first thing I do is pray and give thanks for another day along with Reading Today's Word from Joel & Victoria Osteen and then watching my morning pick me up with Creflo Dollar. Having a strong foundation of faith is key and the shield to get me through each day. I would be dishonest if I said I don't encounter obstacles, however if you follow my Blog you will know where I stand on overcoming obstacles, so I won't go into it here.

Life Lessons In Search for Happiness
(Part II Coming Soon)


I recently wrote an article for Weddzilla on 5 Things I Recommend Every Women To Do Prior To Marriage ~ Life Lessons In Search for Happiness. The responses and replies I received were overwhelming and I was ask to share more tips on Life Lessons In Search for Happiness. Over the month of September, I will share 22 Reasons Why I'm a Better Me. Why 22? because it's my Birthday. Celebrating your Birthday is a moment in time to reflect on your life. If things aren't going perfectly for you, you didn't get the promotion, you broke it off with your boyfriend or girlfriend, you're not where you expected to be in life; those are all just obstacles that you may have encounter. It doesn't mean it will be that way forever. It's your life and if you want better things to happen then you need to stepped out on faith and push, pray until your dream has come true. No one makes it happen for me, but "ME" I create my own destiny and have the determination and ambition to succeed as far as my dreams will lead me. Of course my ultimate cheerleader is "GOD" directing my footsteps one step at a time.

I have had to clean house of many things, people who were holding me back or didn't have my best interest at heart. There comes a time in life where you just get it. It has nothing to do with you, but more about "Me" and what I want for my life. Happiness Inside & Out. Genuinely to BE HAPPY. I'm on a mission for a "BETTER ME" and sometimes that means in order to expand your vision you must close the window on others.

I’ve encounter frustrations, distractions, challenges along the way. Things we all go through in life, however it has made me a "BETTER ME" because of it. I have truly come into my own . What that means is I have finally arrived to be comfortable in my own skin and that is ultimately a refreshing feeling to have. By me sharing my experiences , hopefully I can reach one teach one. You only live one life, make the most of it. With no disappointments and no regrets. I'm often ask what are your plans for the next 5 years? As I have said life is not a dress rehearsal, but the wedding planning process is. My career (drezrehersal) is a LIFESTYLE and my plan is to continue to live everyday like its a FABULOUS Party.

To learn the 22 Steps to a Better Me, please Like Us on Facebook and view my daily tips to a "BETTER ME". My Birthday gift is to share my experiences on my  journey to "GREATNESS". If one of my tips can help another, than I'm truly grateful. 

Happy Birthday to a "BETTER ME"
~Kimberly~

*Photography Provided By: Manalo Empire Photography